{"id":16697,"date":"2015-12-23T10:40:26","date_gmt":"2015-12-23T06:40:26","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/?p=16697"},"modified":"2015-12-23T11:08:54","modified_gmt":"2015-12-23T07:08:54","slug":"nec%c9%99-xeyirli-ovlad-yetisdirm%c9%99k-olar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/?p=16697","title":{"rendered":"Nec\u0259 \u201cxeyirli\u201d \u00f6vlad yeti\u015fdirm\u0259k olar?"},"content":{"rendered":"

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U\u015faqlar Allah\u0131n valideynl\u0259rin\u0259 b\u0259x\u015f etdiyi \u0259n g\u00f6z\u0259l nem\u0259tl\u0259rd\u0259n biridir<\/p>\n

U\u015faqlar Allah\u0131n valideynl\u0259rin\u0259 b\u0259x\u015f etdiyi \u0259n g\u00f6z\u0259l nem\u0259tl\u0259rd\u0259n biridir. \u00d6vlada sahib olmaq valideynl\u0259r \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u00e7ox sevindirici v\u0259ziyy\u0259t olsa da, bir \u00e7ox valideyn \u00f6vladlar\u0131 b\u00f6y\u00fcd\u00fckd\u0259n sonra onlardan naraz\u0131 qal\u0131r, \u0259ziyy\u0259tl\u0259rinin qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda ist\u0259dikl\u0259ri kimi \u00f6vlada sahib olmad\u0131qlar\u0131ndan gileyl\u0259nir. H\u0259tta \u00e7ox ac\u0131nacaql\u0131 hal olsa da, valideynl\u0259rini \u201cqocalar evin\u0259\u201d qoyan, yaxud da \u00e7\u00f6ll\u0259r\u0259 atan \u00f6vladlara da az rast g\u0259lmirik. Bunlar bir t\u0259r\u0259f\u0259, d\u00f6y\u00fcl\u0259n, t\u0259hqir edil\u0259n, h\u0259tta \u00f6ld\u00fcr\u00fcl\u0259n valideynl\u0259r d\u0259 az deyil. Dem\u0259k olar ki, el\u0259 bir g\u00fcn olmur, x\u0259b\u0259rl\u0259rd\u0259 bu c\u00fcr hallara rast g\u0259lm\u0259y\u0259k. Bu v\u0259ziyy\u0259t is\u0259 yaln\u0131z bizim \u00f6lk\u0259d\u0259 deyil, d\u00fcnyan\u0131n h\u0259r yerind\u0259 ba\u015f verir. Bu probleml\u0259rin h\u0259lli \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn m\u00fcxt\u0259lif m\u00fczakir\u0259l\u0259r apar\u0131l\u0131r v\u0259 m\u00fcxt\u0259lif \u00fcsullara \u0259l at\u0131l\u0131r. B\u0259s \u0259sl \u00e7\u0131x\u0131\u015f yolu n\u0259dir? Bu hal t\u0259kc\u0259 valideynl\u0259r v\u0259 \u00f6vlad aras\u0131nda ba\u015f vermir. Niy\u0259 c\u0259miyy\u0259td\u0259ki insanlar aras\u0131nda bu q\u0259d\u0259r anla\u015fmazl\u0131q olur, insanlar bir-biri il\u0259 kobud davran\u0131r, h\u00f6rm\u0259tsizlik edir, bir-birini sev\u0259 bilmirl\u0259r?<\/p>\n

H\u0259r \u015feyd\u0259n \u00f6nc\u0259, \u00f6vlad da Allah\u0131n bir t\u0259c\u0259llisidir, Allah onu h\u0259m nem\u0259t, h\u0259m d\u0259 imtahan olaraq valideynl\u0259r\u0259 b\u0259x\u015f edir. B\u0259zi valideynl\u0259r onun Allah\u0131n t\u0259c\u0259llisi oldu\u011funu unudur, b\u00fct\u00fcn diqq\u0259tini v\u0259 sevgisini onlara y\u00f6nl\u0259ndirirl\u0259r, onlar\u0131 xo\u015fb\u0259xtlikl\u0259rinin t\u0259m\u0259li kimi g\u00f6r\u00fcrl\u0259r. \u018flb\u0259tt\u0259 ki, \u00f6vlada \u0259n g\u00f6z\u0259l t\u0259rzd\u0259 sevgi v\u0259 qay\u011f\u0131 g\u00f6st\u0259rilm\u0259lidir, valideynl\u0259r h\u0259r c\u00fcr imkanlar\u0131ndan istifad\u0259 ed\u0259r\u0259k onlar\u0131 qorumal\u0131d\u0131rlar. Ancaq unudulmamal\u0131d\u0131r ki, \u00f6vlad\u0131 ver\u0259n d\u0259, alan da, yedir\u0259n, i\u00e7ir\u0259n d\u0259 Allahd\u0131r, u\u015faqlar da Allah\u0131n t\u0259c\u0259llisidir. Bir d\u0259 insan yaln\u0131z v\u0259 yaln\u0131z Allah\u0131 sevm\u0259kl\u0259 xo\u015fb\u0259xt ola bil\u0259r, dig\u0259r insanlar\u0131 is\u0259 Allah\u0131n t\u0259c\u0259llisi olaraq sev\u0259r. Allah insan\u0131 ancaq \u00d6z\u00fcn\u0259 ibad\u0259t etm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn yarad\u0131b. Allah\u0131n biz\u0259 verdiyi h\u0259r bir nem\u0259t Onun yolunda v\u0259 Onun rizas\u0131n\u0131 qazanmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn istifad\u0259 edildiyi halda, insan\u0131 xo\u015fb\u0259xt ed\u0259 bil\u0259r. El\u0259c\u0259 d\u0259 u\u015faqlar.<\/p>\n

H\u0259r birimiz e\u015fitmi\u015fik ki, u\u015faqlar d\u00fcnyaya g\u0259l\u0259nd\u0259, yaxud da qohum-\u0259qr\u0259ba il\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131la\u015fanda bel\u0259 dualar edilir: \u201cAllah xeyirli \u00f6vlad etsin\u201d, \u201cAd\u0131 il\u0259 b\u00f6y\u00fcs\u00fcn\u201d, \u201cValideynl\u0259rin\u0259 layiq olsun\u201d, \u201cXo\u015fb\u0259xt olsun\u201d v\u0259 s. \u018flb\u0259tt\u0259, bunlar g\u00f6z\u0259l arzulard\u0131r. Ancaq niy\u0259 \u201cAllah imanl\u0131 \u00f6vlad etsin\u201d, \u201cAllah Pey\u011f\u0259mb\u0259rl\u0259rimiz kimi g\u00f6z\u0259l \u0259xlaql\u0131 etsin\u201d, \u201cAllah Qurana uy\u011fun ya\u015fayan s\u0259mimi m\u00f6minl\u0259rd\u0259n etsin\u201d dualar\u0131n\u0131 e\u015fitm\u0259y\u0259k?! M\u0259hz bu m\u0259qal\u0259d\u0259 vur\u011fulamaq ist\u0259diyim m\u0259qam da budur: Valideynl\u0259r u\u015faqlar\u0131n\u0131 c\u0259miyy\u0259tin ad\u0259t-\u0259n\u0259n\u0259sin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 b\u00f6y\u00fcd\u00fcrl\u0259r, t\u0259rbiy\u0259 verirl\u0259r, u\u015faql\u0131qdan onlar\u0131n g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259yini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrl\u0259r, hans\u0131 ixtisasa sahib olacaqlar\u0131n\u0131 planlay\u0131rlar. Ancaq \u00f6n\u0259mli olan o u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n \u0259sl Quran \u0259xlaq\u0131 il\u0259 ya\u015famas\u0131d\u0131r, Allah\u0131 sevm\u0259sidir, Allah\u0131 tan\u0131mas\u0131d\u0131r. M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n, Quran \u0259xlaq\u0131nda \u201cyalan dan\u0131\u015fmaq, kimis\u0259 \u0259l\u0259 salmaq, qeyb\u0259t etm\u0259k, haram pul qazanmaq, lov\u011falanmaq\u201d haramd\u0131r, \u201cg\u00f6z\u0259l s\u00f6z s\u00f6yl\u0259m\u0259k, valideynl\u0259rini incitm\u0259m\u0259k, n\u0259inki ail\u0259y\u0259, b\u00fct\u00fcn insanlara h\u00f6rm\u0259t etm\u0259k v\u0259 sevgi g\u00f6st\u0259rm\u0259k, f\u0259dakarl\u0131q etm\u0259k, insanlara yax\u015f\u0131l\u0131q etm\u0259k v\u0259 s.\u201d halald\u0131r, Allah\u0131n sevdiyini ibad\u0259tl\u0259rdir. Bir Quran ay\u0259sind\u0259 buyruldu\u011fu kimi:<\/p>\n

De: \u201cG\u0259lin, R\u0259bbinizin siz\u0259 n\u0259l\u0259ri haram etdiyini oxuyum: Ona he\u00e7 n\u0259yi \u015f\u0259rik qo\u015fmay\u0131n, valideynl\u0259r\u0259 yax\u015f\u0131l\u0131q edin v\u0259 yoxsulluq ucbat\u0131ndan u\u015faqlar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 \u00f6ld\u00fcrm\u0259yin. Sizin d\u0259, onlar\u0131n da ruzisini Biz veririk. Murdar \u0259m\u0259ll\u0259rin a\u015fkar\u0131na da, gizlisin\u0259 d\u0259 yax\u0131nla\u015fmay\u0131n. Allah\u0131n, (\u00f6ld\u00fcr\u00fclm\u0259sini) haram buyurdu\u011fu \u015f\u0259xsi haqs\u0131z yer\u0259 \u00f6ld\u00fcrm\u0259yin. Allah bunlar\u0131 siz\u0259 t\u00f6vsiy\u0259 etmi\u015fdir ki, b\u0259lk\u0259 anlayas\u0131n\u0131z. (\u018fnam sur\u0259si, 151)<\/p>\n

Ne\u00e7\u0259 valideyn oturub \u00f6vladlar\u0131na bu g\u00f6z\u0259l \u0259xlaqlar\u0131 ba\u015fa sal\u0131b? Allah\u0131 sevm\u0259y\u0259n bir \u00f6vlad b\u00f6y\u00fcd\u00fckd\u0259n sonra nec\u0259 valideynl\u0259rini sevsin?! C\u0259miyy\u0259timizd\u0259 g\u00f6rd\u00fcy\u00fcm\u00fcz valideyn-\u00f6vlad m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259ri bunun bariz n\u00fcmun\u0259l\u0259ridir. <\/p>\n

G\u0259lin \u00f6vladlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 Quran \u0259xlaq\u0131 il\u0259 b\u00f6y\u00fcd\u0259k. Onlara g\u00f6z\u0259l \u0259xlaq \u00f6yr\u0259d\u0259k, v\u0259t\u0259nimizi v\u0259 dinimizi sevdir\u0259k. Onlar\u0131 Allah\u0131n \u0259n g\u00f6z\u0259l v\u0259 m\u0259sum t\u0259c\u0259llil\u0259ri kimi g\u00f6r\u00fcb sev\u0259k, qay\u011f\u0131 g\u00f6st\u0259r\u0259k. Bu zaman n\u0259inki \u00f6vlad-valdeyn m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259ri d\u00fcz\u0259l\u0259r, el\u0259c\u0259 d\u0259 c\u0259miyy\u0259td\u0259ki probleml\u0259r k\u00f6k\u00fcnd\u0259n h\u0259ll olunar. Unutmayaq ki, sevgi, y\u0259ni Allah sevgisi d\u00fcnyadak\u0131 b\u00fct\u00fcn probleml\u0259rin h\u0259llidir. <\/p>\n

Firuz\u0259 H\u0259s\u0259nzad\u0259<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

U\u015faqlar Allah\u0131n valideynl\u0259rin\u0259 b\u0259x\u015f etdiyi \u0259n g\u00f6z\u0259l nem\u0259tl\u0259rd\u0259n biridir U\u015faqlar Allah\u0131n valideynl\u0259rin\u0259 b\u0259x\u015f etdiyi \u0259n g\u00f6z\u0259l nem\u0259tl\u0259rd\u0259n biridir. \u00d6vlada sahib olmaq valideynl\u0259r \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u00e7ox sevindirici v\u0259ziyy\u0259t olsa da, bir \u00e7ox valideyn \u00f6vladlar\u0131 b\u00f6y\u00fcd\u00fckd\u0259n sonra onlardan naraz\u0131 qal\u0131r, \u0259ziyy\u0259tl\u0259rinin qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda ist\u0259dikl\u0259ri kimi \u00f6vlada sahib olmad\u0131qlar\u0131ndan gileyl\u0259nir. H\u0259tta \u00e7ox ac\u0131nacaql\u0131 hal olsa da, valideynl\u0259rini \u201cqocalar evin\u0259\u201d qoyan, […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-16697","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-pub"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16697","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=16697"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"http:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16697\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":16705,"href":"http:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16697\/revisions\/16705"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=16697"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=16697"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=16697"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}