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\u201cYem\u0259k g\u0259tir, b\u00fct\u00fcn g\u00fcn can\u0131m \u00e7\u0131x\u0131b i\u015fd\u0259\u2026\u201d \u2013 bu c\u00fcml\u0259 il\u0259 ba\u015flayan ax\u015famlar var ail\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259.<\/p>\n
Bizim toplumda qad\u0131n-ki\u015fi v\u0259 ail\u0259 m\u00f6vzusunda \u00e7at\u0131\u015fmayan, olmas\u0131 g\u0259r\u0259k\u0259n, amma bir d\u00fcrl\u00fc ola bilm\u0259y\u0259n situasiyalar m\u00f6vcuddur. \u00dcmumiyy\u0259tl\u0259, ail\u0259 \u00e7\u0259mb\u0259rimiz \u00e7ox dar\u0131sqald\u0131r, ora ist\u0259kl\u0259rimizi q\u0131s\u0131tl\u0131 \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 s\u0131x\u0131\u015fd\u0131rm\u0131\u015f\u0131q.<\/p>\n
Bir qad\u0131n olaraq, bu m\u00f6vzuya qad\u0131nlar\u0131n t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n m\u00fcnasib\u0259t bidir\u0259c\u0259y\u0259m. \u018fks cinsd\u0259n olan bir h\u0259mkar\u0131m da ki\u015fil\u0259rin n\u00f6qteyi-n\u0259z\u0259rind\u0259n bu m\u00f6vzunu bir az t\u0259hlil edib.<\/p>\n
Ail\u0259 m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rind\u0259 ilk \u00f6nc\u0259 dostluq, sonras\u0131nda h\u00f6rm\u0259t, daha sonra is\u0259 sevgi ard\u0131c\u0131ll\u0131\u011f\u0131 olmas\u0131 prinsipin\u0259 \u0259saslan\u0131ram. \u018fn \u00fcz\u00fcn\u00f6m\u00fcrl\u00fc v\u0259 say\u011f\u0131l\u0131 ail\u0259l\u0259rin t\u0259m\u0259lind\u0259 bu prinsip dayan\u0131r.<\/p>\n
G\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczd\u0259 ki\u015fil\u0259rl\u0259 yana\u015f\u0131 qad\u0131nlar da \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r. Y\u0259ni hardasa, ikisinin d\u0259 g\u00fcnl\u00fck y\u00fck\u00fc eynidir. H\u0259r ikisi i\u015fd\u0259n ev\u0259 g\u0259lir. Yaxud da \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmayan qad\u0131n evd\u0259 \u00f6vladlar\u0131 il\u0259 m\u0259\u015f\u011ful olur. F\u0259rq etm\u0259z, m\u00f6vzu h\u0259r iki situasiya \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn ke\u00e7\u0259rlidir.<\/p>\n
Ax\u015fam i\u015fd\u0259n g\u0259l\u0259n ki\u015fi ail\u0259si v\u0259 qad\u0131n\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n xo\u015fhall\u0131qla qar\u015f\u0131lan\u0131r, g\u00fcn \u0259rzind\u0259 qad\u0131n\u0131n y\u00fck\u00fcn\u00fcn ki\u015finin \u00e7al\u0131\u015fma y\u00fck\u00fcn\u0259 b\u0259rab\u0259r (b\u0259z\u0259n is\u0259 daha a\u011f\u0131r) oldu\u011funu saymadan, yem\u0259yi, s\u0259h\u0259r \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn geyimi, u\u015faqlar\u0131n\u0131n haz\u0131rl\u0131\u011f\u0131 v\u0259 qullu\u011fu normal \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 yerin\u0259 yetirilmi\u015f olsa bel\u0259, ki\u015fi bundan raz\u0131 qalm\u0131r. Ev\u0259 g\u0259lir, \u201cyem\u0259k g\u0259tir, \u00e7ay g\u0259tir\u201d kimi \u0259mrl\u0259rl\u0259 davran\u0131b, istirah\u0259tini televizor qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda davam etdir\u0259n ki\u015fi, qad\u0131n\u0131n\u0131n g\u00fcn\u00fcn\u00fc bel\u0259 sorma\u011f\u0131 a\u011fl\u0131na g\u0259tirmirs\u0259, bu ail\u0259, birlikd\u0259 ya\u015famaq \u0259zab\u0131na \u00e7evrilmi\u015f bir m\u0259cburiyy\u0259t\u0259 d\u00f6n\u00fcr.<\/p>\n
Qad\u0131n\u0131n verdiyi suallara q\u0131sa v\u0259 lakonik cavablarla, ba\u015f\u0131ndan ed\u0259rc\u0259sin\u0259 televizorun ekran\u0131na k\u00f6kl\u0259nmi\u015f fikirl\u0259rl\u0259 baxan ki\u015fi, qad\u0131ndan daha hans\u0131 qay\u011f\u0131 v\u0259 \u015f\u0259fq\u0259tin, lap el\u0259, h\u00f6rm\u0259tin hesab\u0131n\u0131 soru\u015fa bil\u0259r ki? Adama dey\u0259rl\u0259r, n\u0259 vermis\u0259n ki, n\u0259 d\u0259 ist\u0259yirs\u0259n?<\/p>\n
V\u0259 gec\u0259 yar\u0131s\u0131d\u0131r, yatmaq zaman\u0131 g\u0259linc\u0259 \u201cyor\u011funam, m\u0259n yat\u0131ram\u201d dey\u0259r\u0259k yata\u011f\u0131na girib yuxuya ged\u0259n ki\u015finin qad\u0131n\u0131 n\u0259vazi\u015fi kimd\u0259n g\u00f6rm\u0259lidir? B\u00fct\u00fcn g\u00fcn\u00fcn\u00fc i\u015fin\u0259 v\u0259 ya \u00f6vladlar\u0131na h\u0259sr ed\u0259n, gec\u0259ni d\u0259 yan\u0131nda odun kimi yatan bir ki\u015fi il\u0259 ke\u00e7ir\u0259n qad\u0131n nec\u0259 xo\u015f aura il\u0259 g\u00fcn\u0259 ba\u015flas\u0131n? Qad\u0131n ehtiyaclar\u0131n\u0131n ba\u015f\u0131nda n\u0259vazi\u015f, \u015f\u0259fq\u0259t dayan\u0131r, siz be\u015f min manat pul g\u0259tirs\u0259niz bel\u0259, qay\u011f\u0131s\u0131n\u0131, naz\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7\u0259k\u0259 bilm\u0259diyiniz, qad\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ona hiss etdirm\u0259diyiniz t\u0259qdird\u0259 bunun \u00f6n\u0259mi olmayacaq.<\/p>\n
G\u00f6z\u00fc ba\u015fqa yerd\u0259 olan, daim axtar\u0131\u015fda olan ki\u015fil\u0259r\u0259 sual ver\u0259nd\u0259 ki, n\u0259 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn axtard\u0131qlar\u0131n\u0131 qad\u0131n\u0131nda tapm\u0131rsan, \u0259ks\u0259r hallarda, cavab bu olur: \u201cAil\u0259 ba\u015fqad\u0131r, bu i\u015fl\u0259r ba\u015fqa\u201d.<\/p>\n
S\u0259n ail\u0259 qavram\u0131n\u0131 n\u0259 olaraq alq\u0131lay\u0131rsan? Ail\u0259, u\u015faq d\u00fcnyaya g\u0259tirm\u0259 mexanizmas\u0131d\u0131r, yoxsa arvad\u0131n\u0131n tozunu al\u0131b ota\u011f\u0131n bir gu\u015f\u0259sin\u0259 yerl\u0259\u015fdir\u0259c\u0259yin vitrindir? S\u0259n ist\u0259kl\u0259rini q\u0131s\u0131tlay\u0131b, qad\u0131n\u0131ndan ist\u0259m\u0259dikc\u0259, \u0259lb\u0259tt\u0259, bu c\u00fcr d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u0259c\u0259ks\u0259n. S\u0259n qad\u0131n\u0131na n\u0259 zaman \u201c\u0259r\u201d tabusundan \u00e7\u0131x\u0131b, sevgili ola bilmis\u0259n?
\nOnunla d\u0259rl\u0259\u015fm\u0259yi, dost olma\u011f\u0131, yataqda ist\u0259kl\u0259rini izah etm\u0259yi, b\u00fct\u00fcn g\u00f6z\u0259llikl\u0259ri ya\u015fama\u011f\u0131 arzulad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 dil\u0259 g\u0259tirmis\u0259n? Seksd\u0259n ancaq u\u015faq yapmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn istifad\u0259d\u0259n vazke\u00e7mis\u0259n, hissl\u0259rin g\u00f6z\u0259lliyini qad\u0131n\u0131nda c\u0259ml\u0259\u015fdirmis\u0259n?<\/p>\n
Bir d\u0259 bu var\u2026 Ail\u0259 ortam\u0131nda qad\u0131n\u0131n ki\u015fid\u0259n ist\u0259kl\u0259ri olanda, intim oyunlar d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcb onu \u0259rin\u0259 s\u0259rgil\u0259m\u0259k ist\u0259yini s\u00f6yl\u0259diyind\u0259 ki\u015finin verdiyi reaksiya d\u0259h\u015f\u0259tdir. Qad\u0131n dediyin\u0259 v\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcy\u00fcn\u0259 pe\u015fiman olur bu t\u0259pkid\u0259n. \u201cOnu hardan bilirs\u0259n ki?, S\u0259n\u0259 kim deyib ki? Niy\u0259 bu \u015feyi bel\u0259 \u00e7ox ist\u0259yirs\u0259n ki?, Bu haqda hardan e\u015fitmis\u0259n?\u201d kimi suallarla adam\u0131 hissl\u0259rind\u0259n soyudan \u201c\u0259r\u201dl\u0259r var.<\/p>\n
B\u0259y\u0259m, h\u0259r \u015feyi ki\u015fi bilm\u0259lidir? Qad\u0131n\u0131n g\u00f6z\u00fc kor, qula\u011f\u0131 kard\u0131r? Qad\u0131n televizor, film, kitab, internet istifad\u0259\u00e7isi deyil? Bu suallar \u201cs\u0259n bunu etmis\u0259n ki, bilirs\u0259n?\u201d n\u0259z\u0259rl\u0259ril\u0259 qad\u0131na qar\u015f\u0131 y\u00f6n\u0259lirs\u0259, \u0259lb\u0259tt\u0259, ki\u015fi ist\u0259kl\u0259rini k\u0259narda realla\u015fd\u0131racaq.<\/p>\n
N\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r ki, ail\u0259 qavram\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7\u0259mb\u0259rl\u0259mi\u015fik v\u0259 oradan d\u0131\u015far\u0131ya \u00e7\u0131xa bilmirik, bu, bel\u0259 d\u0259 davam ed\u0259c\u0259k. \u201c\u018fr v\u0259 arvad\u201d tabular\u0131n\u0131 s\u0131nd\u0131ra bilmiriks\u0259, el\u0259, ki\u015fil\u0259r k\u0259narda arzular\u0131n\u0131 ger\u00e7\u0259kl\u0259\u015fdirsin, evd\u0259 qad\u0131n\u0131 il\u0259, ancaq, u\u015faq yapmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn seksl\u0259 m\u0259\u015f\u011ful olsun, qad\u0131nlar da orqazm ya\u015faya bilm\u0259m\u0259kd\u0259n \u0259s\u0259bl\u0259ri tar\u0131ma \u00e7\u0259kilib, b\u00fct\u00fcn stressini siz\u0259 t\u00f6ks\u00fcn. Bu da siz\u0259 A\u0130L\u018f!<\/p>\n
\u0130ndi m\u0259n sual verir\u0259m, b\u0259yl\u0259r\u2026<\/p>\n
\u018fn son n\u0259 zaman qad\u0131n\u0131n\u0131za: \u201csabah g\u00f6z\u0259llik m\u0259rk\u0259zin\u0259 get, m\u0259n tez g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259m, u\u015faqlarla vaxt ke\u00e7ir\u0259r\u0259m, s\u0259n get, bir az \u0259hval\u0131n d\u0259yi\u015fsin, d\u0259yi\u015fiklik et\u201d demisiniz?<\/p>\n
\u018fn son n\u0259 zaman: \u201cev\u0259 g\u0259lir\u0259m, haz\u0131rla\u015f, yem\u0259y\u0259 ged\u0259k, bir az \u0259hval\u0131m\u0131z a\u00e7\u0131ls\u0131n, s\u0259n\u0259 d\u0259 xo\u015f olar\u201d demisiniz?<\/p>\n
N\u0259 zaman: \u201cBu g\u00fcn u\u015faqlar\u0131 n\u0259n\u0259sigil\u0259 aparaq, ax\u015fam ba\u015f-ba\u015fa bir gec\u0259 ke\u00e7ir\u0259k\u201d deyib bunu ist\u0259misiniz.<\/p>\n
\u018fn son n\u0259 vaxt: \u201c\u0259linizd\u0259 bir g\u00fcl il\u0259 qap\u0131n\u0131 d\u00f6y\u00fcb, qap\u0131n\u0131 a\u00e7an qad\u0131n\u0131n\u0131za sar\u0131l\u0131b \u00f6pm\u00fcs\u00fcn\u00fcz?\u201d<\/p>\n
N\u0259 zaman: \u201cbir film g\u0259tirir\u0259m (v\u0259 ya k\u0259\u015ff etmi\u015f\u0259m), ax\u015fam birlikd\u0259 izl\u0259y\u0259k\u201d demisiniz?<\/p>\n
\u018fn son n\u0259 vaxt: \u201csabah al\u0131\u015f-veri\u015f\u0259 ged\u0259k (v\u0259 ya get), sonra da bir m\u0259kanda kofe i\u00e7\u0259k\u201d demisiniz?<\/p>\n
N\u0259 zaman: at\u0259\u015fli bir gec\u0259nin sonunda qad\u0131n\u0131n\u0131za sar\u0131l\u0131b qoxusu il\u0259 yuxuya getmisiniz?<\/p>\n
\u0130ll\u0259rin \u0259r-arvad\u0131 olaraq, n\u0259 zaman qad\u0131n\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n v\u00fccudunu tamamil\u0259 tan\u0131m\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z?<\/p>\n
V\u0259 b\u0259yl\u0259r, \u0259n son n\u0259 zaman \u0259r olmaqdan \u00e7\u0131x\u0131b, qad\u0131n\u0131n\u0131z \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn sevgili olmusunuz?<\/p>\n
Aysel Abdullazad\u0259<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
\u201cYem\u0259k g\u0259tir, b\u00fct\u00fcn g\u00fcn can\u0131m \u00e7\u0131x\u0131b i\u015fd\u0259\u2026\u201d \u2013 bu c\u00fcml\u0259 il\u0259 ba\u015flayan ax\u015famlar var ail\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259. Bizim toplumda qad\u0131n-ki\u015fi v\u0259 ail\u0259 m\u00f6vzusunda \u00e7at\u0131\u015fmayan, olmas\u0131 g\u0259r\u0259k\u0259n, amma bir d\u00fcrl\u00fc ola bilm\u0259y\u0259n situasiyalar m\u00f6vcuddur. \u00dcmumiyy\u0259tl\u0259, ail\u0259 \u00e7\u0259mb\u0259rimiz \u00e7ox dar\u0131sqald\u0131r, ora ist\u0259kl\u0259rimizi q\u0131s\u0131tl\u0131 \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 s\u0131x\u0131\u015fd\u0131rm\u0131\u015f\u0131q. Bir qad\u0131n olaraq, bu m\u00f6vzuya qad\u0131nlar\u0131n t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n m\u00fcnasib\u0259t bidir\u0259c\u0259y\u0259m. \u018fks cinsd\u0259n olan bir h\u0259mkar\u0131m […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-16938","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-pub"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16938","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=16938"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"http:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16938\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":16940,"href":"http:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16938\/revisions\/16940"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=16938"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=16938"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=16938"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}