{"id":18454,"date":"2016-03-05T10:00:43","date_gmt":"2016-03-05T06:00:43","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/?p=18454"},"modified":"2016-03-05T17:07:51","modified_gmt":"2016-03-05T13:07:51","slug":"kisil%c9%99rin-t%c9%99snifati-v%c9%99-qadinlarin-ehtiyatda-saxladiqlari-kisil%c9%99r-18","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/?p=18454","title":{"rendered":"Ki\u015fil\u0259rin t\u0259snifat\u0131 v\u0259 qad\u0131nlar\u0131n ehtiyatda saxlad\u0131qlar\u0131 ki\u015fil\u0259r\u2026 18+"},"content":{"rendered":"

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El\u0259 bilirsiniz, ancaq ki\u015fil\u0259r x\u0259yan\u0259t edir, ancaq ki\u015fil\u0259r ehtiyatda adam saxlay\u0131r, qara g\u00fcn\u00fc \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn, axtar\u0131\u015fdad\u0131r? Xeyr! Qad\u0131nlar da x\u0259yan\u0259t edir, ail\u0259 v\u0259 ya m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rd\u0259n k\u0259narda da ba\u015fqa ki\u015fil\u0259rl\u0259 m\u00fcnasib\u0259t qurar\u2026 N\u0259 t\u00f6k\u0259rs\u0259n a\u015f\u0131na, o \u00e7\u0131xar qa\u015f\u0131\u011f\u0131na prinsipi\u2026<\/p>\n

D\u00fczd\u00fcr, he\u00e7 bir hala, x\u0259yan\u0259ti d\u0259st\u0259kl\u0259mir\u0259m, amma ki\u015fil\u0259r kimi qad\u0131nlar da axtar\u0131\u015fad\u0131rlar, ehtiyat variantlar\u0131 olur, \u201colmad\u0131 bel\u0259, olsun bel\u0259\u201d, \u201co, olmas\u0131n, bu, olsun\u201d \u015f\u00fcar\u0131, h\u0259yat devizi alt\u0131nda ya\u015fayanlar \u00e7oxdur\u2026<\/p>\n

\u0130ndiki zaman\u0259d\u0259, qad\u0131nlar\u0131m\u0131z da doymurlar, n\u0259 g\u00f6zl\u0259ri, n\u0259 ehtiraslar\u0131, n\u0259 cibl\u0259ri doymur\u2026<\/p>\n

D\u00fczd\u00fcr, indiki qad\u0131nlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 da tam raz\u0131 salmaq olmur, hey n\u0259d\u0259ns\u0259 naraz\u0131d\u0131rlar\u2026<\/p>\n

Ki\u015fi tipl\u0259rini t\u0259snifatla\u015fd\u0131rmaqla, hans\u0131 ki\u015fil\u0259rin ehtiyat variantda saxlan\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bil\u0259rik.<\/p>\n

\u018ff\u0259l, sakit ki\u015fi tipi- \u00e7ox dar\u0131xd\u0131r\u0131c\u0131 ki\u015fidir, i\u015fd\u0259n ev\u0259, evd\u0259n i\u015f\u0259, ambisiyas\u0131z, arzusu v\u0259 m\u0259qs\u0259di olmayan v\u0259 he\u00e7 n\u0259yi \u00f6n\u0259mli saymayan, sad\u0259c\u0259 melanxolik ya\u015fam t\u0259rzini ya\u015fayan v\u0259 \u00fcnsiyy\u0259tcil olmayan ki\u015fidir. Ki\u015fi bu c\u00fcr davrananda, qad\u0131n v\u0259 ail\u0259 \u00fczvl\u0259ri il\u0259 \u00fcnsiyy\u0259td\u0259 olmayanda, m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259r aras\u0131nda bigan\u0259lik v\u0259 soyuma yaran\u0131r. Qad\u0131n ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131 qatmaq, kimin \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcns\u0259 maraql\u0131 olmaq, kiminl\u0259s\u0259 dost kimi olsa da, \u00fcnsiyy\u0259td\u0259 olmaq, payla\u015fmaq ist\u0259yir, dig\u0259r bir ki\u015fi il\u0259 ba\u015flayan dost mac\u0259ralar\u0131 sonra sevgiy\u0259, ehtirasa g\u0259tirib \u00e7\u0131xard\u0131r, x\u0259yan\u0259t etm\u0259, ail\u0259d\u0259n k\u0259nar m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rin yaranmas\u0131 il\u0259 n\u0259tic\u0259l\u0259nir.
\n\u0130ntellektual, kitab oxuyan- hey intellektual s\u00f6hb\u0259tl\u0259r edir, bo\u015fl vaxt\u0131nda adi m\u0259i\u015f\u0259t s\u00f6hb\u0259ti, xan\u0131m\u0131yla \u00fcnsiyy\u0259tl\u0259 olmaq \u0259v\u0259zin\u0259 ya kitab oxuyur, ya intellektual oyunlar oynay\u0131r, ya dostlar\u0131 il\u0259 -intellekt s\u0259viyy\u0259si uyy\u011fun g\u0259l\u0259n dostlar\u0131 il\u0259 \u00fcnsiyy\u0259td\u0259 olur, ail\u0259sind\u0259ki qad\u0131n onun \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn a\u015fa\u011f\u0131 s\u0259viyy\u0259li, savads\u0131z olur, bu c\u00fcr qad\u0131nla intellektual v\u0259 h\u0259r m\u00f6vzuda dan\u0131\u015fmaq maraqs\u0131z g\u0259lir, \u00e7\u00fcnki \u00e7ox zaman onu biliksiz, maraqs\u0131z \u00e7\u0131xard\u0131r, bilik s\u0259viyy\u0259sind\u0259n naraz\u0131 qal\u0131r. H\u0259tta b\u0259z\u0259n ittiham edir ki, ail\u0259d\u0259 u\u015faqlar\u0131n t\u0259hsili il\u0259 ana bu bilik v\u0259 savadla m\u0259\u015f\u011ful ola bilm\u0259z, u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n savads\u0131z olmas\u0131 anan\u0131n genl\u0259rind\u0259n g\u0259lmi\u015fdir, \u00e7\u00fcnki ata-y\u0259ni o, \u00e7ox savadl\u0131, a\u011f\u0131ll\u0131d\u0131r, ali insanlar qrupuna daxildir. Bu zaman al\u00e7ald\u0131lm\u0131\u015f, a\u015fa\u011f\u0131lanm\u0131\u015f qad\u0131n onu anlayacaq v\u0259 onun s\u0259viyy\u0259sind\u0259 olacaq kimis\u0259 axtar\u0131r.
\n\u0130dman\u00e7\u0131, futbolu sev\u0259n- a\u011fl\u0131 \u0259v\u0259zin\u0259 fiziki g\u00f6st\u0259ricil\u0259ri v\u0259 idman formal\u0131 g\u00f6z\u0259l b\u0259d\u0259ni il\u0259 \u00f6y\u00fcn\u00fcr, topaza meyllidir, bo\u015f vaxtlar\u0131nda da idmanla m\u0259\u015f\u011ful oldu\u011fundan, evd\u0259 televizorda idman yar\u0131\u015flar\u0131na bax\u0131b, \u015f\u0259rh etdiyind\u0259n, idmandan v\u0259 idman\u00e7\u0131lardan savay\u0131 dan\u0131\u015fma\u011fa m\u00f6vzusu olmayan, yeri g\u0259l\u0259nd\u0259 fiziki g\u00fcc\u00fcn\u00fc g\u00f6st\u0259rib evd\u0259 xan\u0131m\u0131na a\u011f\u0131r s\u00f6z deyib, \u0259l qald\u0131ranlar. Qazand\u0131\u011f\u0131 pullar\u0131 piv\u0259y\u0259, idman yar\u0131\u015flar\u0131ndak\u0131 udu\u015f fondlar\u0131na x\u0259rcl\u0259yir. Buna h\u0259r qad\u0131n s\u0259br etmir, d\u00f6zm\u00fcr, bel\u0259 ki\u015fil\u0259ri t\u0259rk etm\u0259y\u0259 ehtiyat edirl\u0259r, qorxurlar bu c\u00fcr ki\u015fil\u0259rd\u0259n, k\u0259narda gizli m\u00fcnasib\u0259t qururlar, c\u0259sar\u0259tli qad\u0131nlar is\u0259 bel\u0259 ki\u015fil\u0259ri sad\u0259c\u0259 bir g\u00fcn t\u0259rk edirl\u0259r.
\n\u0130\u015fg\u00fczar, evd\u0259 tap\u0131lmayan-o q\u0259d\u0259r ba\u015f\u0131 pul qazanma\u011fa, m\u00fcqavil\u0259 ba\u011flamaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn i\u015f vaxt\u0131 bit\u0259nd\u0259n sonra i\u015fd\u0259 qal\u0131b i\u015fl\u0259m\u0259y\u0259, i\u015f\u011f\u00fczar g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f, \u015fam yem\u0259kl\u0259rin\u0259, ezamiyy\u0259tl\u0259r\u0259 qar\u0131\u015f\u0131r ki, evind\u0259ki qad\u0131n\u0131ndan, onun h\u0259yat\u0131ndan, sevgisiz v\u0259 diqq\u0259tsiz qoydu\u011fundan x\u0259b\u0259rsiz olur. Qad\u0131n ki\u015fisi ola-ola ki\u015fisizlik sindromu il\u0259 ya\u015fay\u0131r, bir m\u00fcdd\u0259t onun i\u015fiil\u0259 v\u0259 qazand\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u00e7oxlu pullar il\u0259 f\u0259xr ets\u0259 d\u0259, t\u0259nhal\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u00f6z s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc deyir. Qad\u0131n bu c\u00fcr ki\u015fil\u0259ri gec-tez t\u0259rk edir v\u0259 ya ba\u015fqas\u0131yla \u0259v\u0259z edir.
\nAvara-i\u015fi, g\u00fcc\u00fc olmayan, pul qazanmayan, i\u015f\u0259 yaramayan v\u0259 h\u0259r \u015feyd\u0259n, h\u0259r k\u0259sd\u0259n naraz\u0131, \u015fikay\u0259t ed\u0259n insand\u0131r. Bu c\u00fcr insanlar cinsind\u0259n as\u0131l\u0131 olmayaraq, dar\u0131xd\u0131r\u0131c\u0131 v\u0259 bezdirici olurlar v\u0259 t\u0259nha qalma\u011fa m\u0259hkumdurlar.
\nAlfons- son zamanlar \u00e7ox yay\u0131lm\u0131\u015f ki\u015fi tipidir, xan\u0131m i\u015fl\u0259sin, m\u0259ni saxlas\u0131n, qad\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6n\u0259 verib, \u00f6z\u00fc har\u0131nlayan, evdar ki\u015filik ed\u0259n ki\u015fil\u0259r \u0259lb\u0259tt\u0259 ki, \u00e7ox q\u0131c\u0131q do\u011furan ki\u015fil\u0259rdir. Qad\u0131n hesab\u0131na ya\u015fayan v\u0259 i\u015fl\u0259m\u0259k ist\u0259m\u0259y\u0259n ki\u015fiy\u0259 qad\u0131nlar h\u00f6rm\u0259t etmir. Bu c\u00fcr ki\u015fil\u0259r u\u011fursuz, m\u0259qs\u0259dsiz, z\u0259if ki\u015fil\u0259r oldu\u011fundan, qad\u0131ndan as\u0131l\u0131 oldu\u011fundan qad\u0131n\u0131 yorur, qad\u0131n baha ba\u015fa g\u0259l\u0259n v\u0259 onun puluna g\u00f6r\u0259 yan\u0131nda olan ki\u015fil\u0259ri ax\u0131r-\u0259vv\u0259l yola sal\u0131r v\u0259 qovur. Bir d\u0259 var ki, evd\u0259 dig\u0259r ki\u015fil\u0259r qrupuna aid edil\u0259n \u0259rl\u0259ri t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n \u201cat\u0131lan qad\u0131nlar\u201d bu c\u00fcr alfons f\u0131r\u0131ldaq\u00e7\u0131, ov\u00e7ular\u0131n t\u0259l\u0259sin\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr, pul m\u00fcqabilind\u0259 \u0259rind\u0259n ala bilm\u0259dikl\u0259rini, \u0259rinin ya\u015fatmad\u0131qlar\u0131n\u0131 onunla ya\u015fay\u0131r, ondan al\u0131r, amma bu da gec-tez onu bezdirir.
\n\u201c\u018flia\u00e7\u0131q\u201d-sad\u0259c\u0259 puluna v\u0259 qad\u0131n\u0131 pulla saxlamas\u0131na g\u00f6r\u0259 qad\u0131nlar bu ki\u015fil\u0259ri t\u0259rk etmirl\u0259r, qalan bir i\u015f\u0259 yaramad\u0131qlar\u0131, qad\u0131n\u0131 pulla ald\u0131qlar\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn qad\u0131na m\u00fcnasib\u0259ti d\u0259 yuxar\u0131dan a\u015fa\u011f\u0131 olur. Bu qad\u0131na ax\u0131r-\u0259vv\u0259l t\u0259sir edir v\u0259 qad\u0131n k\u0259narda ba\u015fqa ki\u015fi axtar\u0131r. Ehtiyatda ba\u015fqa ki\u015fi olur ki, bunu t\u0259rk ed\u0259n zaman t\u0259k qalmas\u0131n.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

El\u0259 bilirsiniz, ancaq ki\u015fil\u0259r x\u0259yan\u0259t edir, ancaq ki\u015fil\u0259r ehtiyatda adam saxlay\u0131r, qara g\u00fcn\u00fc \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn, axtar\u0131\u015fdad\u0131r? Xeyr! Qad\u0131nlar da x\u0259yan\u0259t edir, ail\u0259 v\u0259 ya m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rd\u0259n k\u0259narda da ba\u015fqa ki\u015fil\u0259rl\u0259 m\u00fcnasib\u0259t qurar\u2026 N\u0259 t\u00f6k\u0259rs\u0259n a\u015f\u0131na, o \u00e7\u0131xar qa\u015f\u0131\u011f\u0131na prinsipi\u2026 D\u00fczd\u00fcr, he\u00e7 bir hala, x\u0259yan\u0259ti d\u0259st\u0259kl\u0259mir\u0259m, amma ki\u015fil\u0259r kimi qad\u0131nlar da axtar\u0131\u015fad\u0131rlar, ehtiyat variantlar\u0131 olur, \u201colmad\u0131 bel\u0259, olsun […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-18454","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-pub"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18454","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=18454"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"http:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18454\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":18458,"href":"http:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18454\/revisions\/18458"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=18454"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=18454"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=18454"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}