{"id":18957,"date":"2016-03-29T12:00:31","date_gmt":"2016-03-29T08:00:31","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/?p=18957"},"modified":"2016-03-29T15:41:58","modified_gmt":"2016-03-29T11:41:58","slug":"harika-ufuk-guven-meselesi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/?p=18957","title":{"rendered":"Harika UFUK.”G\u00dcVEN MESELES\u0130”"},"content":{"rendered":"

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Azerbaycan\u0131n K\u00fclt\u00fcr ve Edebiyat Portal\u0131n\u0131n T\u00fcrkiye temssilcisi<\/p>\n

\u015eu g\u00fcnlerde \u00e7evremdekilerin a\u011f\u0131z birli\u011fi etmi\u015flercesine s\u00f6yledikleri bir c\u00fcmle var: \u201cBu devirde kimseye g\u00fcven kalmad\u0131.\u201d Neredeyse hepimiz \u201cNeden bu hallere d\u00fc\u015ft\u00fck?\u201d diye kara kara d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmekteyiz. \u201c\u0130nsano\u011flu \u00e7i\u011f s\u00fct emmi\u015f.\u201d s\u00f6z\u00fc de yeni de\u011fil, y\u0131llard\u0131r s\u00f6ylene s\u00f6ylene dillerde pelesenk olmu\u015f. Gazete haberlerini okudu\u011fumuzda \u015fa\u015fk\u0131nl\u0131k i\u00e7inde kal\u0131yoruz. Televizyonda haberleri izlemeye \u00e7ekinir olduk.<\/p>\n

Yap\u0131lan haks\u0131zl\u0131klar, \u015fiddet ve sald\u0131r\u0131lar kan\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 donduruyor. \u0130nsan, kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131ndakine inanmak ve g\u00fcvenmek ihtiyac\u0131 duyuyor. K\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fck yapan ki\u015fiye \u201dNeden bunu yapt\u0131n\u0131z?\u201d diye soruyorsunuz cevap k\u0131sa, \u00f6z ve bir o kadar da d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcr\u00fcc\u00fc\u2026 \u201cCan\u0131m \u00f6yle istedi!\u201d Sorumsuzlu\u011fun, terbiyesizli\u011fin, haks\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131n \u00f6zeti\u2026 Yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z her \u015feyin makul bir a\u00e7\u0131klamas\u0131 olmal\u0131d\u0131r. Topluma zarar verecek davran\u0131\u015flardan daima uzak durmal\u0131y\u0131z. <\/p>\n

Bir zamanlar \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131m okula giderken olduk\u00e7a kalabal\u0131k belediye otob\u00fcs\u00fcnde yarat\u0131\u011f\u0131n birinin liseli bir k\u0131z \u00f6\u011frenciye tacizde bulundu\u011funu g\u00f6rd\u00fcm. \u201cOtob\u00fcs kalabal\u0131k da ondan\u2026\u201d bahanesinin arkas\u0131na s\u0131\u011f\u0131nan sap\u0131\u011fa ters ters bakt\u0131m, k\u0131za da \u201cBana do\u011fru yakla\u015f.\u201d dedim. Elimden geldi\u011fince o \u00f6\u011frenciyi korumaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131m. Neden g\u00fcven i\u00e7inde ya\u015fayam\u0131yoruz? Evimize, i\u015f yerimize, okulumuza giderken neden huzur i\u00e7inde de\u011filiz?<\/p>\n

Anlat\u0131lanlar gen\u00e7leri korkak ve g\u00fcvensiz yap\u0131yor. . Elinde bir adresle kar\u015f\u0131m\u0131za \u00e7\u0131k\u0131p tarif isteyenlere de ku\u015fkuyla bakar olduk. Yolda kar\u015f\u0131dan kar\u015f\u0131ya ge\u00e7mek i\u00e7in yard\u0131m isteyen ya\u015fl\u0131 kad\u0131n k\u0131z\u0131 bay\u0131ltarak bir taksi \u00e7a\u011f\u0131r\u0131p \u201cK\u0131z\u0131m fenala\u015ft\u0131.\u201d diyerek g\u00f6t\u00fcrebiliyor. Ya kad\u0131n tacirlerine pazarlan\u0131yor, ya b\u00f6bre\u011fi \u00e7al\u0131n\u0131yor. Yahut bir delikanl\u0131 \u00e7ok g\u00fczel bir bayandan etkileniyor, onun teklifini kabul ederek partiye gidiyor. Kendince e\u011fleniyor, i\u00e7ki i\u00e7iyor, sabah buz dolu bir k\u00fcvette b\u00f6bre\u011fi al\u0131nm\u0131\u015f halde g\u00f6zlerini a\u00e7\u0131yor.<\/p>\n

Hayat\u0131n\u0131z boyunca d\u00fcr\u00fcstl\u00fc\u011f\u00fc ilke edinirseniz gece ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 yast\u0131\u011fa koydu\u011funuzda huzur i\u00e7inde uykuya dalars\u0131n\u0131z. \u201cTemiz bir vicdan kadar yumu\u015fak bir yast\u0131k yoktur.\u201d Frans\u0131zlar\u0131n bu atas\u00f6z\u00fcnde oldu\u011fu gibi \u00f6nemli olan vicdan\u0131n\u0131 temiz tutmakt\u0131r. Hayret ediyorum her t\u00fcrl\u00fc k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fc\u011f\u00fc yapanlar rahat uyuyabiliyorlar m\u0131? <\/p>\n

Bu gidi\u015fle k\u0131z ve erkek \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n, gen\u00e7 k\u0131zlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n yeti\u015fkin erkeklere potansiyel sap\u0131k olarak bakacaklar\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncesi bile \u00e7ok \u00fcrk\u00fct\u00fcc\u00fc\u2026 Toplumda kad\u0131n-erkek omuz omuza, s\u0131rt s\u0131rta, el ele ya\u015farsa hayat g\u00fczelle\u015fir. Birbirimizi \u00f6telemeye ba\u015flarsak \u201cNe olacak kad\u0131n milleti! Sa\u00e7\u0131 uzun, akl\u0131 k\u0131sa\u2026\u201d veya \u201cNe olacak erkek milleti i\u015fte\u2026 G\u00fcven olmaz onlara\u2026 En iyisinin can\u0131 cehenneme\u2026\u201d dersek kutupla\u015f\u0131r\u0131z. Toplumu zedeleyen tutumlar\u0131n ba\u015f\u0131nda \u00f6tekile\u015ftirmek gelir. <\/p>\n

\u0130nsanlar art\u0131k birbirlerine g\u00fcvenmiyorlar, inanm\u0131yorlar. Kimi insanlar da g\u00fcven olu\u015fturmak i\u00e7in en kutsal de\u011ferler \u00fczerine yalan yere yemin ediyorlar. Sonra da \u201cYalandan kim \u00f6lm\u00fc\u015f!\u201d diyerek g\u00fcl\u00fcyorlar. Neden bol bol yemin ederiz hi\u00e7 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcn\u00fcz m\u00fc? \u201cKar\u015f\u0131dakini inand\u0131rmak i\u00e7in\u2026\u201d dedi\u011finizi duyar gibiyim. Oysa do\u011fru s\u00f6z, yemin istemez. G\u00fcvenilir insan olursan\u0131z zaten yemine hi\u00e7 de gerek kalmayacakt\u0131r. Ne ac\u0131d\u0131r ki insanlar birbirlerine g\u00fcvenemezken paran\u0131n g\u00fcc\u00fcne g\u00fcveniyorlar. \u201cPara her kap\u0131y\u0131 a\u00e7ar.\u201d d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncesi egemen olmu\u015f maalesef\u2026 <\/p>\n

Toplumda huzur i\u00e7inde ya\u015famak istiyorsak \u00f6nce kendimizdeki ve ailemizdeki aksakl\u0131klar\u0131 gidermeliyiz. \u00c7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131za sahip \u00e7\u0131kmal\u0131y\u0131z ama yetmez; onlara ak\u0131llar\u0131n\u0131 kullanmay\u0131 ve empati kurmay\u0131 da \u00f6\u011fretmeliyiz. Bize yap\u0131lmas\u0131n\u0131 istemedi\u011fimizi ba\u015fkas\u0131na yapmamay\u0131 ilke edinmeliyiz. G\u00fcvenmek istiyorsak g\u00fcvenilir olmay\u0131 ba\u015farmal\u0131y\u0131z. G\u00fcvenilir bir insan olmak kadar onur veren hi\u00e7bir mertebe yoktur.<\/p>\n

Adana.19 \u015eUBAT 2015 SAAT: 16.30<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Azerbaycan\u0131n K\u00fclt\u00fcr ve Edebiyat Portal\u0131n\u0131n T\u00fcrkiye temssilcisi \u015eu g\u00fcnlerde \u00e7evremdekilerin a\u011f\u0131z birli\u011fi etmi\u015flercesine s\u00f6yledikleri bir c\u00fcmle var: \u201cBu devirde kimseye g\u00fcven kalmad\u0131.\u201d Neredeyse hepimiz \u201cNeden bu hallere d\u00fc\u015ft\u00fck?\u201d diye kara kara d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmekteyiz. \u201c\u0130nsano\u011flu \u00e7i\u011f s\u00fct emmi\u015f.\u201d s\u00f6z\u00fc de yeni de\u011fil, y\u0131llard\u0131r s\u00f6ylene s\u00f6ylene dillerde pelesenk olmu\u015f. Gazete haberlerini okudu\u011fumuzda \u015fa\u015fk\u0131nl\u0131k i\u00e7inde kal\u0131yoruz. Televizyonda haberleri izlemeye […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[7],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-18957","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-turkiy-dbiyyati"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18957","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=18957"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"http:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18957\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":18962,"href":"http:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18957\/revisions\/18962"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=18957"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=18957"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=18957"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}