{"id":21261,"date":"2016-07-29T09:00:17","date_gmt":"2016-07-29T05:00:17","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/?p=21261"},"modified":"2016-07-29T09:18:37","modified_gmt":"2016-07-29T05:18:37","slug":"harika-ufuk-adam-olma-gunu-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/?p=21261","title":{"rendered":"Harika UFUK.”Adam olma g\u00fcn\u00fc”"},"content":{"rendered":"

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Azerbaycan\u0131n K\u00fclt\u00fcr ve Edebiyat Portal\u0131n\u0131n T\u00fcrkiye temssilcisi<\/strong><\/p>\n

Sevgililer G\u00fcn\u00fc, Anneler G\u00fcn\u00fc, Babalar G\u00fcn\u00fc, \u00d6\u011fretmenler G\u00fcn\u00fc, Eczac\u0131lar G\u00fcn\u00fc, T\u0131p Doktorlar\u0131 G\u00fcn\u00fc, Hem\u015fireler G\u00fcn\u00fc, Emek\u00e7i Kad\u0131nlar G\u00fcn\u00fc, \u00c7al\u0131\u015fan Gazeteciler G\u00fcn\u00fc, D\u00fcnya Su G\u00fcn\u00fc\u2026 G\u00fcnler, g\u00fcnler, g\u00fcnler\u2026 Daha \u00f6nce Ev Kad\u0131nlar\u0131 G\u00fcn\u00fcn\u00fc \u00f6nermi\u015ftim ama pek ses \u00e7\u0131kmam\u0131\u015ft\u0131. Yine de hat\u0131rlatmakta fayda g\u00f6r\u00fcyorum. Bir kez daha d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn.<\/p>\n

S\u00f6z\u00fcm yok bu g\u00fcnlere, kutlayan kutlas\u0131n da \u00e7ok \u00f6nemli bir g\u00fcn atlanm\u0131\u015f. Her mesle\u011fin, her \u015feyin g\u00fcn\u00fc var da bir adam olma g\u00fcn\u00fc yok! Oysa en \u00e7ok ihtiya\u00e7 duydu\u011fumuz \u015feydir adam olmak\u2026 Ama bir g\u00fcn de\u011fil, y\u0131l\u0131n her g\u00fcn\u00fc, her saati adam olmak gerekir. Yoksa bir tek g\u00fcn kuyumcular\u0131, \u00e7i\u00e7ek\u00e7ileri, restoranlar\u0131, pastaneleri ziyaret etmekle olmuyor bu i\u015fler\u2026 Adam olmak ince sanat, sanat\u0131n daniskas\u0131, alas\u0131\u2026<\/p>\n

Adam olman\u0131n okulu yok, insan\u0131n i\u00e7inden gelecek. Ailesinden \u00f6\u011frenecek \u00f6ncelikle adaml\u0131\u011f\u0131n inceliklerini\u2026 Mesela baba, anneyi d\u00f6vmeyecek. Ona hakaret etmeyecek. Kar\u0131s\u0131na sevgi, sayg\u0131 g\u00f6stererek yeni yeti\u015fen o\u011fluna \u00f6rnek olacak. D\u00fcr\u00fcstl\u00fc\u011f\u00fc, efendili\u011fi \u00f6\u011fretecek. El \u00e2lemin k\u0131z\u0131na kar\u0131s\u0131na sarkmamay\u0131 \u00f6\u011fretecek ama bunlar\u0131 kendi hayat\u0131nda uygulayacak da\u2026 Yoksa \u201cHoca verir talk\u0131n\u0131, kendi yutar salk\u0131m\u0131\u2026\u201d t\u00fcr\u00fcnden olmayacak.<\/p>\n

Anne de k\u0131z\u0131n\u0131 ezmeyecek. Mesela:
\n–\tK\u0131z\u0131m, a\u011fabeyine sofra haz\u0131rla.
\n–\tNeden, kendi haz\u0131rlayam\u0131yor mu? \u0130kimiz de ayn\u0131 anda okuldan geldik. Beraber haz\u0131rlasak olmaz m\u0131?
\n–\tSen k\u0131zs\u0131n. Sen haz\u0131rlayacaks\u0131n. O erkek\u2026
\n–\tK\u0131z\u0131m, a\u011fabeyinin \u00fct\u00fcs\u00fcn\u00fc yap. G\u00f6mle\u011fini, pantolonunu \u00fct\u00fcle. Pantolona \u00e7ift \u00e7izgi yapma, ge\u00e7en seferki gibi\u2026
\n–\tO, neden kendi pantolonunu \u00fct\u00fclemiyor? Eli k\u0131r\u0131k m\u0131?
\n–\t\u00c7ok konu\u015fma, sus ve annenin s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc dinle bakay\u0131m. K\u0131z k\u0131sm\u0131 itaatk\u00e2r olur. \u0130tiraz istemem.
\n–\tPeki\u2026 <\/p>\n

Bu diyalog b\u00f6yle s\u00fcr\u00fcp gidecek olursa kolay kolay adam olamay\u0131z. K\u0131z \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z erke\u011fe hizmet etmek \u00fczere programlanacaksa erkek de her \u015feyi kendi hakk\u0131 bilecektir. K\u0131zlar bir erkekle konu\u015ftuklar\u0131nda hakaret ya\u015farlarken erke\u011fin alk\u0131\u015flanmas\u0131 da bu ikileme bir \u00f6rnektir. \u0130\u015fin tuhafl\u0131\u011f\u0131, \u00e7eli\u015fkiler buradan ba\u015fl\u0131yor zaten\u2026 <\/p>\n

E\u015fit olmak dururken \u00fcst\u00fcnl\u00fck taslamak da neyin nesi? Kimse kimseyi ezmesin, \u00fczmesin. Adam olman\u0131n cinsiyeti olmaz. O halde kad\u0131n da olsak erkek de olsak adam olmayailk \u00f6nce kendimizden ba\u015flamal\u0131y\u0131z.<\/p>\n

Adna.10.02.2015.SAAT:15.05<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Azerbaycan\u0131n K\u00fclt\u00fcr ve Edebiyat Portal\u0131n\u0131n T\u00fcrkiye temssilcisi Sevgililer G\u00fcn\u00fc, Anneler G\u00fcn\u00fc, Babalar G\u00fcn\u00fc, \u00d6\u011fretmenler G\u00fcn\u00fc, Eczac\u0131lar G\u00fcn\u00fc, T\u0131p Doktorlar\u0131 G\u00fcn\u00fc, Hem\u015fireler G\u00fcn\u00fc, Emek\u00e7i Kad\u0131nlar G\u00fcn\u00fc, \u00c7al\u0131\u015fan Gazeteciler G\u00fcn\u00fc, D\u00fcnya Su G\u00fcn\u00fc\u2026 G\u00fcnler, g\u00fcnler, g\u00fcnler\u2026 Daha \u00f6nce Ev Kad\u0131nlar\u0131 G\u00fcn\u00fcn\u00fc \u00f6nermi\u015ftim ama pek ses \u00e7\u0131kmam\u0131\u015ft\u0131. Yine de hat\u0131rlatmakta fayda g\u00f6r\u00fcyorum. Bir kez daha d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn. S\u00f6z\u00fcm yok […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[7],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-21261","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-turkiy-dbiyyati"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21261","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=21261"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21261\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":21265,"href":"https:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21261\/revisions\/21265"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=21261"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=21261"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=21261"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}