{"id":27141,"date":"2018-05-30T08:00:26","date_gmt":"2018-05-30T04:00:26","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/?p=27141"},"modified":"2018-05-30T17:43:37","modified_gmt":"2018-05-30T13:43:37","slug":"x%c9%99yal%c9%99-s%c9%99f%c9%99rova-cahiliyy%c9%99-c%c9%99miyy%c9%99tind%c9%99-evdar-qadinlarin-qisqancligi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/?p=27141","title":{"rendered":"X\u0259yal\u0259 S\u018fF\u018fROVA.” CAH\u0130L\u0130YY\u018f C\u018fM\u0130YY\u018fT\u0130ND\u018f EVDAR QADINLARIN QISQANCLI\u011eI…”"},"content":{"rendered":"

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Cahiliyy\u0259 c\u0259miyy\u0259tind\u0259 q\u0131sqancl\u0131q h\u00f6km s\u00fcr\u00fcr. Ancaq qeyd etm\u0259k laz\u0131md\u0131r ki, bu x\u00fcsusiyy\u0259t cahiliyy\u0259 c\u0259miyy\u0259tind\u0259 m\u00fcsb\u0259t x\u00fcsusiyy\u0259t kimi q\u0259bul edilir. Q\u0131sqancl\u0131\u011f\u0131 sevgi v\u0259 s\u0259daq\u0259t \u0259lam\u0259ti kimi g\u00f6st\u0259rm\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rlar. \u018fg\u0259r bir insan sevdiyini q\u0131sqanm\u0131rsa, onlar\u0131n fikrinc\u0259, bu, \u0259sl sevgi deyil. Bu yanl\u0131\u015f anlay\u0131\u015fa \u0259sas\u0259n, insan\u0131n qar\u015f\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259fin sevgisind\u0259n raz\u0131 qalmas\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn b\u00fct\u00fcn insanlar aras\u0131nda ancaq ona sevgi b\u0259sl\u0259m\u0259lidir.<\/p>\n

Halbuki, bu, \u00e7ox s\u0259hv d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259dir. \u00c7\u00fcnki h\u0259r \u015feyd\u0259n \u0259vv\u0259l, sevgi \u00e7ox \u00fcst\u00fcn duy\u011fu v\u0259 \u0259xlaqi x\u00fcsusiyy\u0259tdir. \u0130nsan\u0131n sevgid\u0259 q\u0131sqancl\u0131q etm\u0259si Quran \u0259xlaq\u0131na uy\u011fun deyil. \u0130nsan sevdiyi \u015f\u0259xs\u0259 sevgisini s\u0259daq\u0259ti, ba\u011fl\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131, \u015f\u0259fq\u0259ti, g\u00f6z\u0259l s\u00f6zl\u0259ri v\u0259 r\u0259ftar\u0131 il\u0259 g\u00f6st\u0259rir. Bu da qar\u015f\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259fd\u0259 sevildiyin\u0259 dair q\u0259ti fikir formala\u015fd\u0131r\u0131r. Lakin insan\u0131n \u00f6z\u00fcnd\u0259n ba\u015fqa he\u00e7 kims\u0259nin sevilm\u0259sini ist\u0259m\u0259m\u0259si eqoistlikdir.<\/p>\n

Cahiliyy\u0259 c\u0259miyy\u0259tind\u0259, x\u00fcsusil\u0259 d\u0259 ail\u0259 h\u0259yat\u0131nda q\u0131sqancl\u0131\u011fa g\u00f6r\u0259 insanlar \u00e7ox s\u0131x\u0131nt\u0131 \u00e7\u0259kirl\u0259r. H\u0259yat yolda\u015flar\u0131n\u0131n analar\u0131na, atalar\u0131na, bac\u0131lar\u0131na, qarda\u015flar\u0131na, dostlar\u0131na v\u0259 h\u0259tta u\u015faqlar\u0131na b\u0259sl\u0259diyi sevgi bel\u0259 eqoist xarakterli insanlara s\u0131x\u0131nt\u0131 verir. Bel\u0259 insanlar he\u00e7 kim\u0259 \u00f6zl\u0259rind\u0259n art\u0131q v\u0259 \u00f6zl\u0259rin\u0259 olan q\u0259d\u0259r sevgi b\u0259sl\u0259nm\u0259sini ist\u0259mirl\u0259r.<\/p>\n

Evdar qad\u0131nlardak\u0131 q\u0131sqancl\u0131\u011f\u0131n ikinci n\u00f6v\u00fc is\u0259 cahiliyy\u0259 c\u0259miyy\u0259tind\u0259ki evlilik sisteminin yanl\u0131\u015fl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bilm\u0259dikl\u0259rind\u0259n qaynaqlan\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnki t\u0259m\u0259li Allah rizas\u0131na, Allah qorxusuna v\u0259 Allah sevgisin\u0259 \u0259saslanmayan he\u00e7 bir evlilikd\u0259 \u0259sl sevgi v\u0259 s\u0259daq\u0259t olmur. Cahiliyy\u0259 c\u0259miyy\u0259tind\u0259ki qad\u0131nlar da bu m\u00fch\u00fcm h\u0259qiq\u0259ti d\u0259rk etdikl\u0259rin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259, h\u0259r an aldad\u0131lmaq, ikinci plana at\u0131lmaq v\u0259 ya unudulmaq qorxusu il\u0259 ya\u015fay\u0131rlar. Odur ki, \u015f\u00fcbh\u0259l\u0259ndikl\u0259ri h\u0259r hadis\u0259d\u0259n narahat olur v\u0259 q\u0131sqancl\u0131q edirl\u0259r.<\/p>\n

Bu problemi h\u0259ll etm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u0259l atd\u0131qlar\u0131 yollar is\u0259 v\u0259ziyy\u0259ti yax\u015f\u0131la\u015fd\u0131rmaq \u0259v\u0259zin\u0259 daha da \u00e7\u0259tinl\u0259\u015fdirir. S\u0259b\u0259bsiz yer\u0259 k\u00fcsm\u0259k v\u0259 t\u0259rslik etm\u0259kl\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259f\u0259 mesaj verm\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rlar. H\u0259r an \u0259laq\u0259siz bir hadis\u0259d\u0259n \u015f\u00fcbh\u0259l\u0259n\u0259r\u0259k x\u0259yali ssenaril\u0259r qurur v\u0259 qurduqlar\u0131 ssenaril\u0259r \u0259sas\u0131nda k\u0259skin q\u0259rarlar verirl\u0259r. B\u00fct\u00fcn bu h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259tl\u0259r is\u0259 h\u0259yatlar\u0131n\u0131 daha da s\u0131x\u0131nt\u0131l\u0131 edir. Bundan \u0259lav\u0259, ist\u0259dikl\u0259rinin tam \u0259ksin\u0259, qar\u015f\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259fi \u00f6zl\u0259rind\u0259n bir az da uzaqla\u015fd\u0131r\u0131rlar. \u00c7\u00fcnki n\u0259 vaxt, hans\u0131 hadis\u0259d\u0259n n\u0259 n\u0259tic\u0259 \u00e7\u0131xaraca\u011f\u0131 bilinm\u0259y\u0259n bir insanla ya\u015famaq \u00e7ox narahatl\u0131q verir. Odur ki, evdar qad\u0131nlar\u0131n q\u0131sqancl\u0131\u011f\u0131, \u0259sas\u0259n, ail\u0259l\u0259rinin da\u011f\u0131lmas\u0131 il\u0259 n\u0259tic\u0259l\u0259nir.<\/p>\n

Halbuki, b\u00fct\u00fcn bunlar\u0131n h\u0259lli \u00e7ox asand\u0131r. Quranda h\u0259r insan\u0131n n\u0259fsind\u0259 q\u0131sqancl\u0131q hissi olmas\u0131, ancaq n\u0259fsini bu hissd\u0259n t\u0259mizl\u0259m\u0259yin do\u011fru yol oldu\u011fu bildirilmi\u015fdir:<\/p>\n

\u2026 Ancaq n\u0259fsl\u0259rd\u0259 q\u0131sqancl\u0131q h\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 m\u00f6vcuddur. \u018fg\u0259r siz yax\u015f\u0131 dolan\u0131b \u00e7\u0259kins\u0259niz, (bu sizin \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn daha yax\u015f\u0131 olar). \u015e\u00fcbh\u0259siz ki, Allah etdiyiniz h\u0259r bir i\u015fd\u0259n x\u0259b\u0259rdard\u0131r! (Nisa sur\u0259si, 128)<\/p>\n

Ona g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 Quran \u0259xlaq\u0131 il\u0259 ya\u015fayan m\u00f6min q\u0131sqancl\u0131q etm\u0259z. \u00c7\u00fcnki Allah qorxusundan qaynaqlanan qar\u015f\u0131l\u0131ql\u0131 s\u0259daq\u0259t v\u0259 etibar hissl\u0259ri g\u0259rginliyin \u0259m\u0259l\u0259 g\u0259lm\u0259sini qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 al\u0131r.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Cahiliyy\u0259 c\u0259miyy\u0259tind\u0259 q\u0131sqancl\u0131q h\u00f6km s\u00fcr\u00fcr. Ancaq qeyd etm\u0259k laz\u0131md\u0131r ki, bu x\u00fcsusiyy\u0259t cahiliyy\u0259 c\u0259miyy\u0259tind\u0259 m\u00fcsb\u0259t x\u00fcsusiyy\u0259t kimi q\u0259bul edilir. Q\u0131sqancl\u0131\u011f\u0131 sevgi v\u0259 s\u0259daq\u0259t \u0259lam\u0259ti kimi g\u00f6st\u0259rm\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rlar. \u018fg\u0259r bir insan sevdiyini q\u0131sqanm\u0131rsa, onlar\u0131n fikrinc\u0259, bu, \u0259sl sevgi deyil. Bu yanl\u0131\u015f anlay\u0131\u015fa \u0259sas\u0259n, insan\u0131n qar\u015f\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259fin sevgisind\u0259n raz\u0131 qalmas\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn b\u00fct\u00fcn insanlar aras\u0131nda ancaq ona sevgi […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-27141","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-pub"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/27141","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=27141"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/27141\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":27143,"href":"https:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/27141\/revisions\/27143"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=27141"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=27141"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=27141"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}