{"id":27367,"date":"2018-06-28T04:00:13","date_gmt":"2018-06-28T00:00:13","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/?p=27367"},"modified":"2018-06-28T09:34:10","modified_gmt":"2018-06-28T05:34:10","slug":"c%c9%99sar%c9%99t-v%c9%99-h%c9%99qiq%c9%99tin-h%c9%99d%c9%99find%c9%99-s%c9%99faq%c9%99t-cavansirzad%c9%99","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/?p=27367","title":{"rendered":"\u00abC\u0259sar\u0259t v\u0259 h\u0259qiq\u0259t\u00bbin h\u0259d\u0259find\u0259 \u2014 \u015e\u0259faq\u0259t Cavan\u015firzad\u0259"},"content":{"rendered":"

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C\u0259sar\u0259t v\u0259 h\u0259qiq\u0259t<\/p>\n

\u00d6z\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fc c\u0259sar\u0259tli v\u0259 s\u0259mimi birisi hesab edirsiniz? Suala cavab\u0131n\u0131z m\u00fcsb\u0259tdirs\u0259, suallara cavab ver\u0259rk\u0259n c\u0259sar\u0259tli v\u0259 s\u0259mimi olmal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z.<\/p>\n

Haz\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131zsa, ba\u015flayaq.<\/p>\n

C\u0259sar\u0259t:<\/p>\n

1.C\u0259sar\u0259tinizin dayanaca\u011f\u0131 son m\u0259nt\u0259q\u0259, \u0259n c\u0259sar\u0259tli add\u0131m\u0131n\u0131z n\u0259 ola bil\u0259r?<\/p>\n

C\u0259sar\u0259timin son dayanaca\u011f\u0131 t\u0259k qald\u0131\u011f\u0131m g\u00fcn\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259rdir. G\u0259r\u0259k c\u0259sar\u0259tli olma\u011f\u0131n \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn tutarl\u0131 s\u0259b\u0259bin v\u0259 ya s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259rin olsun. \u018fn c\u0259sar\u0259tli add\u0131m\u0131m\u0131 sevgiy\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 atm\u0131\u015fam. \u0130kinci d\u0259f\u0259 inanm\u0131ram bu add\u0131m\u0131 atam\u2026M\u0259nc\u0259, atmayacam da!\u2026<\/p>\n

2.\u0130ctimai yerd\u0259 aqressiya g\u00f6r\u00fcrs\u00fcn\u00fcz, ya da kims\u0259 a\u011flay\u0131r, intihar etm\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r, ya da ki, terror\u00e7u il\u0259 eyni m\u0259kandas\u0131n\u0131z, bu \u00fc\u00e7 durumda n\u0259 ed\u0259rsiniz?<\/p>\n

\u0130ctimai yerd\u0259 aqressiya g\u00f6r\u0259nd\u0259 s\u0259b\u0259bini ara\u015fd\u0131r\u0131ram. B\u0259z\u0259n fikir vermir\u0259m. K\u0259nardan izl\u0259m\u0259k daha \u00e7ox maraql\u0131d\u0131r. \u0130nsan a\u011flayanda \u00fcr\u0259yi dolu olur, \u00fcmumiyy\u0259tl\u0259 dan\u0131\u015fma\u011f\u0131 sevir. Yax\u015f\u0131s\u0131 budur a\u011flaya-a\u011flaya dan\u0131\u015fs\u0131n, m\u0259n d\u0259 dinl\u0259yim,arada d\u0259st\u0259k olmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u201ccan, a\u011flama deyim\u201d. \u0130ntihar ed\u0259n qad\u0131n olsa el\u0259 d\u0259rd dan\u0131\u015faram ki, \u00f6z g\u00fcn\u00fcn\u0259 \u015f\u00fck\u00fcr ed\u0259r. Ki\u015fi olsa, son d\u0259f\u0259 yax\u015f\u0131l\u0131q etm\u0259sini ist\u0259y\u0259r\u0259m. M\u0259n\u0259 borca pul verm\u0259sini ist\u0259y\u0259r\u0259m. Zarafat edir\u0259m. D\u00fcz\u00fc,\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fc itir\u0259r\u0259m. Teror\u00e7u il\u0259 eyni m\u0259kana d\u00fc\u015fs\u0259m polis\u0259, ya da yan\u0131mda g\u00fccl\u00fc-q\u00fcvv\u0259tli adam olsa ona dey\u0259r\u0259m. Teror\u00e7u qad\u0131nd\u0131rsa g\u00fcc\u00fcm \u00e7atar, ki\u015fiy\u0259 g\u00fcc\u00fcm \u00e7atmaz.<\/p>\n

3.Bir n\u0259f\u0259rd\u0259n \u00e7ox xo\u015funuz g\u0259lir, onu ist\u0259yirsiniz, bunu ona etiraf ed\u0259rsinizmi, siz\u0259 bel\u0259 etiraf ets\u0259 kims\u0259, onunla sevi\u015f\u0259rdinizmi?<\/p>\n

Xo\u015fum g\u0259l\u0259n insanla sevi\u015fm\u0259r\u0259m. \u00c7ox adamdan xo\u015fum g\u0259lir. Ham\u0131s\u0131 da \u00fcz\u00fcm\u00fc o t\u0259r\u0259f\u0259 d\u00f6nd\u0259r\u0259n\u0259c\u0259ndir. Ruhumu titr\u0259d\u0259n insan olsa, h\u0259yat\u0131m\u0131 birl\u0259\u015fdirm\u0259k \u015f\u0259rti il\u0259\u2026.<\/p>\n

4.Sizin se\u00e7iminiz: sevgisiz seks, sevi\u015fm\u0259, yoxsa sevi\u015fm\u0259 v\u0259 seks olmadan sevgi?<\/p>\n

Sevgisiz he\u00e7 birinin g\u00f6z\u00fcmd\u0259 bir q\u0259pik d\u0259y\u0259ri yoxdur.<\/p>\n

5.Sevgi etiraf\u0131n\u0131, el\u0259c\u0259 d\u0259 sevgi bit\u0259rk\u0259n ayr\u0131lmaq ist\u0259yini bildirm\u0259k c\u0259sar\u0259t t\u0259l\u0259b edir, yoxsa, s\u0259mimiyy\u0259t?<\/p>\n

Sevgi etiraf\u0131 h\u0259r zaman c\u0259sar\u0259t t\u0259l\u0259b edib. Qar\u015f\u0131ndak\u0131 insan\u0131n cavab\u0131n\u0131 bilm\u0259diyin \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn. S\u0259mimi ayr\u0131lma\u011f\u0131 h\u0259r adam bacarm\u0131r t\u0259bii\u2026 Daha \u00e7ox riyakarl\u0131q olur. S\u0259mimiyy\u0259t olsa daha yax\u015f\u0131 olar.<\/p>\n

Hans\u0131 ist\u0259k, h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259t, t\u0259x\u0259yy\u00fcl v\u0259 s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcz\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 sizi q\u0131nayarlar, buna baxmayaraq, bu ist\u0259k, h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259t, t\u0259x\u0259yy\u00fcl\u00fcn ger\u00e7\u0259kl\u0259\u015fm\u0259sind\u0259n v\u0259 s\u00f6zd\u0259n vaz ke\u00e7m\u0259zsiniz?
\nM\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n des\u0259m ki, xaricd\u0259 oxumaq ist\u0259yir\u0259m v\u0259 ya xarici v\u0259t\u0259nda\u015fla ail\u0259 qurmaq ist\u0259yir\u0259m, q\u0131namaq n\u0259di, m\u0259ni topa tutarlar. \u0130mkan\u0131m olsa t\u0259bii oxumaq ist\u0259r\u0259m. D\u00fcz\u00fc, xarici v\u0259t\u0259nda\u015fla evl\u0259nm\u0259k fikrim olmay\u0131b. He\u00e7 vaxt da olmayacaq dey\u0259 bilm\u0259r\u0259m. Sevgiy\u0259 d\u0259y\u0259r verir\u0259m. H\u0259r an h\u0259r \u015fey ola bil\u0259r.<\/p>\n

7.Bildiyiniz v\u0259 s\u00f6yd\u00fcy\u00fcn\u00fcz \u0259n ab\u0131rs\u0131z, pis say\u0131lan s\u00f6y\u00fc\u015f?<\/p>\n

\u018fs\u0259bl\u0259\u015f\u0259nd\u0259 v\u0259 ya zarafata tez-tez i\u015fl\u0259tdiyim s\u00f6y\u00fc\u015f: \u015e\u0259r\u0259fsiz!<\/p>\n

8.\u0130tir\u0259c\u0259yinizi bildiyiniz halda, hans\u0131 risk\u0259 getm\u0259y\u0259 haz\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131z?<\/p>\n

Bu sual\u0131 bir d\u0259f\u0259 d\u0259 vermi\u015fdil\u0259r m\u0259n\u0259. Cavab ver\u0259 bilm\u0259mi\u015fdim. D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnm\u00fc\u015fd\u00fcm, yen\u0259 d\u0259 cavab tapa bilm\u0259dim. Cavab ver\u0259 bilm\u0259y\u0259c\u0259m.<\/p>\n

\u015e\u0259xsi m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rd\u0259 dominant, aktivsiniz, yoxsa tabe olan passivsiniz?
\nH\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 aktiv ola bilm\u0259r\u0259m. Passiv olanda da qar\u015f\u0131mdak\u0131n\u0131n aktiv olmas\u0131n\u0131 ist\u0259r\u0259m.<\/p>\n

10.Hans\u0131 heyvan sizin xarakter v\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259niz\u0259 yax\u0131nd\u0131r?<\/p>\n

B\u0259z\u0259n t\u00fclk\u00fc, b\u0259z\u0259n canavar, b\u0259z\u0259n qu qu\u015funa b\u0259nz\u0259dir\u0259m \u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fc.<\/p>\n

H\u0259qiq\u0259t:<\/p>\n

1.Bu vaxtad\u0259k gizl\u0259tdiyiniz h\u0259qiq\u0259tiniz v\u0259 yalan\u0131n\u0131z?<\/p>\n

Bir-ne\u00e7\u0259si var. Amma o yalan da, h\u0259qiq\u0259t d\u0259 m\u0259niml\u0259 q\u0259br\u0259c\u0259n ged\u0259c\u0259k.<\/p>\n

2.Ata v\u0259 ya olmaq, u\u015faq sahibi olmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn ail\u0259 qurmaq m\u00fctl\u0259qdir? Birisi g\u0259lib, des\u0259 ki, m\u0259n s\u0259nin bac\u0131n v\u0259 ya qarda\u015f\u0131nam, nec\u0259 m\u00fcnasib\u0259t b\u0259sl\u0259y\u0259rdiniz? Onu q\u0259bul ed\u0259r v\u0259 sev\u0259rdinizmi?<\/p>\n

M\u0259nim \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn u\u015faq sahibi olmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn ail\u0259 qurmaq vacibdir. \u00c7\u00fcnki bir u\u015fa\u011fa ana olmaqla b\u0259rab\u0259r ata olmaq ist\u0259mir\u0259m. El\u0259 bilir\u0259m t\u0259k ba\u015f\u0131ma o u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n y\u00fck\u00fcn\u00fc da\u015f\u0131ya bilm\u0259r\u0259m. D\u00fcz\u00fc, da\u015f\u0131maq da ist\u0259mir\u0259m. M\u0259n\u0259 bac\u0131nam, qarda\u015f\u0131nam dey\u0259nl\u0259r olub, q\u0259bul el\u0259mi\u015f\u0259m, amma sevm\u0259mi\u015f\u0259m. Sevdiyim insana niy\u0259 bac\u0131-qarda\u015f\u0131 g\u00f6z\u00fcyl\u0259 baxmal\u0131yam? M\u0259nc\u0259 bu \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc aldatmaqd\u0131r v\u0259 u\u015faq h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259tidir.<\/p>\n

3.Sayma\u011f\u0131 bacar\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131zsa, yadda\u015f\u0131n\u0131z sizi darda qoymursa, deyin, o, ne\u00e7\u0259ncidir? (burada o-\u015f\u0259xs \u0259v\u0259zliyidir)<\/p>\n

D\u0259qiq ya\u015f\u0131m\u0131 vurub ke\u00e7m\u0259mi\u015f\u0259m)<\/p>\n

4.\u0130nsanlardan ayr\u0131lma\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n s\u0259b\u0259bi n\u0259dir?<\/p>\n

Yersiz q\u0131sqancl\u0131q, h\u0259ddind\u0259n art\u0131q diqq\u0259t, h\u0259ddind\u0259n art\u0131q diqq\u0259tsizlik.Nadir hallarda x\u0259yan\u0259t.<\/p>\n

5.Bu ifad\u0259ni tamamlay\u0131n: Ya\u015f\u0131m q\u0259d\u0259r<\/p>\n

Ya\u015f\u0131m q\u0259d\u0259r kitab oxumu\u015fam)<\/p>\n

6.Sevgiliniz v\u0259 ya dostunuzun homoseksual v\u0259 ya biseksual oldu\u011funu bildiyiniz zaman, qar\u015f\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259fin t\u0259sdiql\u0259m\u0259sind\u0259n sonra n\u0259 ed\u0259rsiniz?<\/p>\n

Dostumdan yox,amma sevgilimd\u0259n ayr\u0131lard\u0131m. Dostumun \u015f\u0259xsi h\u0259yat\u0131na v\u0259 se\u00e7imin\u0259 qar\u0131\u015fa bilm\u0259r\u0259m. \u00d6z\u00fc bil\u0259r.<\/p>\n

7.Pul m\u00fcqabilind\u0259 varl\u0131 xarici v\u0259t\u0259nda\u015fla ail\u0259 qurars\u0131n\u0131zm\u0131?<\/p>\n

N\u0259inki xarici, he\u00e7 \u00f6z \u00f6lk\u0259min v\u0259t\u0259nda\u015f\u0131yla ail\u0259 qurmaram.<\/p>\n

8.\u0130ntihar ets\u0259niz, s\u0259b\u0259bi n\u0259 olar?<\/p>\n

D\u00fc\u015fm\u0259n \u0259lin\u0259 ke\u00e7m\u0259m\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn y\u0259qin.<\/p>\n

9.C\u0259sar\u0259t h\u0259qiq\u0259t \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcnd\u00fcr, ya h\u0259qiq\u0259t c\u0259sar\u0259t \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcnd\u00fcr?<\/p>\n

\u018fsas c\u0259sar\u0259tdir. \u00d6lk\u0259d\u0259 ham\u0131 h\u0259qiq\u0259ti g\u00f6r\u00fcr, amma c\u0259sar\u0259tl\u0259ri yoxdur, susurlar.<\/p>\n

10.\u00d6l\u0259nd\u0259n sonra sa\u011flam daxili orqanlar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 donor kimi h\u0259diyy\u0259 edilm\u0259sini v\u0259siyy\u0259t ed\u0259rsinizmi v\u0259 surroqat ana v\u0259 ya ata olma\u011fa nec\u0259 yana\u015f\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131z, donor olma\u011fa raz\u0131 olard\u0131n\u0131zm\u0131?<\/p>\n

\u00d6l\u0259nd\u0259n sonra raz\u0131yam. Orqanlar\u0131m\u0131 donor kimi h\u0259diyy\u0259 etsinl\u0259r. Amma surroqat ana olmaram. D\u00fcz\u00fc q\u0259bul da etmir\u0259m.<\/p>\n

H\u0259m h\u0259qiq\u0259t, h\u0259m c\u0259sar\u0259t:<\/p>\n

1.Qanunu nec\u0259 v\u0259 n\u0259 vaxt pozmusunuz?<\/p>\n

M\u0259n\u0259 s\u0259rf el\u0259m\u0259y\u0259nd\u0259 pozmu\u015fam. Daha \u00e7ox t\u0259l\u0259s\u0259nd\u0259 pozdu\u011fum qanunlar olub.)<\/p>\n

2.\u201cO\u201dnunla qar\u015f\u0131la\u015fsan\u0131z, ilk sual\u0131n\u0131z?<\/p>\n

Niy\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131ma \u00e7\u0131xd\u0131n?<\/p>\n

Se\u00e7im qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda olsayd\u0131n\u0131z, n\u0259yi se\u00e7\u0259rdiniz, h\u0259qiq\u0259t pay\u0131 olmayan c\u0259sar\u0259ti, ya c\u0259sar\u0259t pay\u0131 olmayan h\u0259qiq\u0259ti?
\nH\u0259qiq\u0259tl\u0259 birl\u0259\u015fmi\u015f c\u0259sar\u0259ti se\u00e7\u0259rdim.<\/p>\n

M\u0259nl\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131:<\/p>\n

M\u0259n\u0259 c\u0259sar\u0259t edib, ver\u0259c\u0259yiniz sual, dey\u0259c\u0259yiniz s\u00f6z varm\u0131? \u2014 M\u0259niml\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 hans\u0131 h\u0259qiq\u0259ti bilm\u0259k ist\u0259yirsiniz?<\/p>\n

Feminist olub-olmama\u011f\u0131n\u0131z m\u0259n\u0259 maraql\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Feminist deyil\u0259m, qad\u0131n\u0131n da, ki\u015finin d\u0259 s\u0259hvl\u0259rini g\u00f6r\u00fcr\u0259m, irad\u0131m\u0131 bildirir, t\u0259nqidimi edir\u0259m, cinsind\u0259n, ya\u015f\u0131ndan, irqind\u0259n, milliy\u0259tind\u0259n as\u0131l\u0131 olmayaraq ham\u0131ya eyni yana\u015f\u0131ram.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

C\u0259sar\u0259t v\u0259 h\u0259qiq\u0259t \u00d6z\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fc c\u0259sar\u0259tli v\u0259 s\u0259mimi birisi hesab edirsiniz? Suala cavab\u0131n\u0131z m\u00fcsb\u0259tdirs\u0259, suallara cavab ver\u0259rk\u0259n c\u0259sar\u0259tli v\u0259 s\u0259mimi olmal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z. Haz\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131zsa, ba\u015flayaq. C\u0259sar\u0259t: 1.C\u0259sar\u0259tinizin dayanaca\u011f\u0131 son m\u0259nt\u0259q\u0259, \u0259n c\u0259sar\u0259tli add\u0131m\u0131n\u0131z n\u0259 ola bil\u0259r? C\u0259sar\u0259timin son dayanaca\u011f\u0131 t\u0259k qald\u0131\u011f\u0131m g\u00fcn\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259rdir. G\u0259r\u0259k c\u0259sar\u0259tli olma\u011f\u0131n \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn tutarl\u0131 s\u0259b\u0259bin v\u0259 ya s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259rin olsun. \u018fn c\u0259sar\u0259tli add\u0131m\u0131m\u0131 sevgiy\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[37],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-27367","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-musahib"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/27367","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=27367"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/27367\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":27382,"href":"https:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/27367\/revisions\/27382"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=27367"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=27367"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=27367"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}