{"id":30197,"date":"2019-04-11T09:00:00","date_gmt":"2019-04-11T05:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/?p=30197"},"modified":"2019-04-11T13:57:33","modified_gmt":"2019-04-11T09:57:33","slug":"irad%c9%99-aytel-sirin-xosrovun-virtual-sevgilisi-idi-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/?p=30197","title":{"rendered":"\u0130rad\u0259 AYTEL.&#8221;\u015eirin Xosrovun virtual sevgilisi idi&#8221;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/irade-xanim-aytel.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/irade-xanim-aytel-300x231.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"231\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-30044\" srcset=\"https:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/irade-xanim-aytel-300x231.jpg 300w, https:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/irade-xanim-aytel-768x590.jpg 768w, https:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/irade-xanim-aytel.jpg 851w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Olmu\u015f hadis\u0259dir: evl\u0259rinin d\u0259c\u0259l, nazl\u0131-duzlu, g\u00f6z\u0259l-g\u00f6y\u00e7\u0259k q\u0131z\u0131 olan Almaz he\u00e7 vaxt inanmazd\u0131 ki, g\u00fcn g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259k k\u00f6nl\u00fcn\u00fc \u00fcz\u00fcn\u00fc g\u00f6rm\u0259diyi, tan\u0131mad\u0131\u011f\u0131 birisin\u0259 &#8211; Arif\u0259 ver\u0259c\u0259k. Bu sevgi h\u0259m d\u0259 Almaz ali t\u0259hsil\u0259 yiy\u0259l\u0259n\u0259nd\u0259n sonra, i\u015fl\u0259diyi m\u00fcdd\u0259td\u0259 do\u011fulacaq. B\u0259li, o sevirdi, yaln\u0131z s\u0259sini e\u015fitdiyi bir n\u0259f\u0259ri &#8211; Arifi.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130\u015f saat\u0131nda i\u015fl\u0259diyi idar\u0259, evd\u0259 is\u0259 ev telefonu il\u0259 \u0259laq\u0259 saxlayar, bir-birind\u0259n x\u0259b\u0259rdar olard\u0131lar. Arif \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc Almaza bel\u0259 tan\u0131tm\u0131\u015fd\u0131: ali t\u0259hsillidi, i\u015fl\u0259yir, subayd\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Zaman ke\u00e7ir, Almaz evl\u0259rin\u0259 g\u0259l\u0259n b\u00fct\u00fcn el\u00e7il\u0259r\u0259 &#8220;yox&#8221;, &#8211; dey\u0259r\u0259k, \u00fcz\u00fcn\u00fc g\u00f6rm\u0259diyi Arifin adamlar\u0131n\u0131n yolunu g\u00f6zl\u0259yirdi. Almaz\u0131n Arifi g\u00f6rm\u0259k arzusu artanda is\u0259 Arif ona d\u0259h\u015f\u0259tli bir sirr a\u00e7d\u0131: &#8220;M\u0259n yeriy\u0259 bilmir\u0259m, aya\u011f\u0131m\u0131n birini q\u0259zada itirmi\u015f\u0259m&#8221;. Almaz bu s\u00f6zd\u0259n sars\u0131lsa da, Arifi bel\u0259 halda da sev\u0259c\u0259yin\u0259 v\u0259 onun sevgisin\u0259 Arifin fiziki q\u00fcsurunun he\u00e7 bir x\u0259l\u0259l g\u0259tirm\u0259y\u0259c\u0259yin\u0259 s\u00f6z verdi. &#8220;S\u0259nin m\u0259n\u0259viyyat\u0131na b\u0259l\u0259d\u0259m, t\u0259ki m\u0259n\u0259vi q\u00fcsurlu olma, fiziki q\u00fcsur q\u00fcsur deyil&#8221;, &#8211; s\u00f6yl\u0259di.<\/p>\n<p>Almaz Arifin ev \u00fcnvan\u0131n\u0131 bilirdi. Onu da bilirdi ki, Arif ya\u015fl\u0131 bir xalas\u0131 il\u0259 ya\u015fay\u0131r. H\u0259tta Arifin xalas\u0131 bayramlarda, Almaz\u0131n ad g\u00fcnl\u0259rind\u0259 Arifin ad\u0131ndan q\u0131za h\u0259diyy\u0259l\u0259r g\u0259tirir, k\u0259lm\u0259 bel\u0259 etm\u0259d\u0259n geri d\u00f6n\u00fcrd\u00fc.<\/p>\n<p>Arifin \u015firin v\u0259dl\u0259ri, Almaz\u0131n g\u00f6z\u00fcyolda sevdiyi adam\u0131n el\u00e7il\u0259rinin yolunu g\u00f6zl\u0259m\u0259si d\u00fcz on bir il davam etdi. Art\u0131q b\u00fct\u00fcn \u015f\u0259h\u0259r bilirdi ki, Almaz\u0131n g\u00f6zl\u0259diyi var.<\/p>\n<p>Son g\u00fcnl\u0259r Arifd\u0259n \u015f\u00fcbh\u0259l\u0259n\u0259n Almaz gizli yolla onun telefonunun paralel x\u0259ttini \u00f6z evl\u0259rin\u0259 \u00e7\u0259kdirmi\u015fdi. G\u0259l\u0259n v\u0259 ged\u0259n z\u0259ngl\u0259ri izl\u0259y\u0259r\u0259k d\u0259h\u015f\u0259tli bir hadis\u0259nin \u015fahidi oldu: Arif \u018fslind\u0259 Arifin xalas\u0131 adland\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131 qad\u0131n imi\u015f&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Ke\u00e7irdiyi stressd\u0259n a\u011f\u0131r x\u0259st\u0259liy\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u0259n Almaz g\u0259nc ik\u0259n v\u0259fat etdi. Amma &#8220;Arif&#8221;i ba\u011f\u0131\u015flad\u0131. O, bilirdi ki &#8220;Arif&#8221; bu ne\u00e7\u0259 ill\u0259r \u0259rzind\u0259 ona bu q\u0259d\u0259r z\u0259rb\u0259 vursa da, \u00f6z\u00fc d\u0259 ac\u0131 \u00e7\u0259kib, \u00e7\u00fcnki, &#8220;Arif&#8221; Almaz\u0131 h\u0259qiq\u0259t\u0259n sevirdi&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Almaz\u0131n \u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fcn\u00fcn bir ili tamamlanmam\u0131\u015f, &#8220;Arif&#8221; d\u0259 d\u00fcnyas\u0131n\u0131 d\u0259yi\u015fdi&#8230;.<\/p>\n<p>Bu hadis\u0259 m\u0259nim g\u00f6zl\u0259rimin qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda ba\u015f verib &#8211; inan\u0131las\u0131 olmasa bel\u0259!<\/p>\n<p>Bir dostum var; alt\u0131 il virtual olaraq bir q\u0131zla m\u00fcnasib\u0259td\u0259 olub. T\u0259bii ki, m\u00fcasir zamanda sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 yaz\u0131l\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fm\u0259l\u0259r, mobil telefonla dan\u0131\u015f\u0131qlar, gec\u0259l\u0259r \u015firin p\u0131\u00e7\u0131lt\u0131lar, virtual sevi\u015fm\u0259l\u0259r bunlar\u0131n h\u0259r ikisinin \u00fcr\u0259yind\u0259 b\u00f6y\u00fck bir m\u0259h\u0259bb\u0259t\u0259 \u00e7evrilib. Q\u0131z\u0131n m\u00fcxt\u0259lif uydurmalar\u0131 &#8211; \u00fcr\u0259k x\u0259st\u0259siy\u0259m, atam r\u0259hm\u0259t\u0259 getdi&#8230; v\u0259. s. b\u0259han\u0259l\u0259r dostumun onunla g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fm\u0259k arzusunu \u0259ng\u0259ll\u0259yirdi. V\u0259 alt\u0131 ild\u0259n sonra dostuma m\u0259lum oldu ki, bu, \u0259slind\u0259 g\u00f6z\u0259l bir q\u0131z \u015f\u0259kli alt\u0131nda onunla virtual sevgi ya\u015fayan, fiziki q\u00fcsurlu yax\u0131n tan\u0131\u015f\u0131 imi\u015f&#8230; Bu hadis\u0259 dostuma a\u011f\u0131r z\u0259rb\u0259 oldu.  V\u0259 su\u00e7unun \u00fcstu a\u00e7\u0131lan q\u0131z m\u00fcxt\u0259lif yollarla dostumla \u0259laq\u0259 saxlama\u011fa \u00e7al\u0131\u015fsa da, dostum onunla m\u00fcnasib\u0259t\u0259 son qoydu. Bu is\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259fin &#8211; qad\u0131n\u0131n ciddi aqressiyas\u0131na s\u0259b\u0259b oldu. Bu alt\u0131 il m\u00fcdd\u0259tind\u0259 onu gizli sevgi ya\u015famas\u0131na vadar ed\u0259n is\u0259, qad\u0131n kimi qad\u0131nlara qo\u015fula bilm\u0259m\u0259si (q\u00fcsurlar), lakin bu arzuyla ya\u015famas\u0131 idi. T\u0259bii ki, o da ba\u015fad\u00fc\u015f\u00fcl\u0259ndir. Qad\u0131n b\u00fct\u00f6v olmay\u0131nca \u0259traf\u0131na \u00e7ox aqressiv olur. Bu aqressiyan\u0131 is\u0259 yaln\u0131z g\u00fccl\u00fc irad\u0259y\u0259 malik olanlar i\u00e7ind\u0259 bo\u011fa bilir.<\/p>\n<p>Bundan ba\u015fqa, virtual tan\u0131\u015fl\u0131qlar\u0131n insan\u0131 hans\u0131 f\u0259sadlarla qar\u015f\u0131la\u015fd\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n \u015fahidi \u00e7ox olmu\u015fuq. Sevib ayr\u0131lanlar, aldad\u0131lanlar, pulunu itir\u0259nl\u0259r, real h\u0259yatdan uzaq d\u00fc\u015f\u0259nl\u0259r, intihar ed\u0259nl\u0259r v\u0259 s&#8230; Amma b\u00fct\u00fcn bunlarla yana\u015f\u0131, m\u0259n virtual tan\u0131\u015fl\u0131\u011f\u0131 d\u0259st\u0259kl\u0259yir\u0259m. B\u0259z\u0259n \u00fcz\u00fcn\u00fc g\u00f6rm\u0259diyin bir insanla virtual olaraq m\u00fcnasib\u0259t qurursan, onun i\u00e7 d\u00fcnyas\u0131na b\u0259l\u0259d olursan, xasiyy\u0259ti, d\u00fcnyaya bax\u0131\u015f\u0131 s\u0259ni o q\u0259d\u0259r qane edir ki, g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f zaman\u0131 onun xarici g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fc\u015f\u00fc he\u00e7 bir \u00f6n\u0259m da\u015f\u0131m\u0131r. Bu is\u0259, m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rin \u00f6z\u00fcl\u00fcn\u00fcn daha m\u00f6hk\u0259m qurulmas\u0131na g\u0259tirib \u00e7ixar\u0131r. Sur\u0259t d\u0259yi\u015fk\u0259n oldu\u011fu kimi, ilk g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fd\u0259n &#8211; sur\u0259td\u0259n qurulan m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259r d\u0259 d\u0259yi\u015fk\u0259n olur, \u0259b\u0259di olmur. \u018fsas olan, hissl\u0259rin, duy\u011fular\u0131n &#8211; \u00dcr\u0259yin bir-birini tamamlamas\u0131d\u0131r. Bu bar\u0259d\u0259 \u015fair El\u015f\u0259n \u018fzimin s\u00f6yl\u0259dikl\u0259ri d\u0259 maraql\u0131d\u0131r: &#8220;Virtual sevgi m\u00fcmk\u00fcnd\u00fcr. \u018fslind\u0259 bizim dastanlar\u0131m\u0131zda da, klassikl\u0259rimizin \u0259s\u0259rl\u0259rind\u0259 d\u0259 indiki virtual sevgiy\u0259 b\u0259nz\u0259r m\u0259qamlar yer al\u0131b. M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n: Nizami G\u0259nc\u0259vinin &#8220;Xosrov v\u0259 \u015eirin&#8221; \u0259s\u0259rind\u0259 Xosrov \u015eirini g\u00f6rm\u0259mi\u015f ona vurulur. \u015eapur B\u0259rd\u0259d\u0259 olan \u015eirin haqq\u0131nda dan\u0131\u015f\u0131r v\u0259 Xosrovda bu g\u00f6z\u0259li g\u00f6rm\u0259k ist\u0259yi yaran\u0131r. \u015eirin d\u0259 Xosrovun \u015f\u0259kill\u0259rini g\u00f6r\u00fcb vurulur. F\u0259rhad is\u0259 \u015eirinin p\u0259rd\u0259 arxas\u0131ndan s\u0259sini e\u015fidib vurulur. V\u0259 bu sevgil\u0259r d\u00fcnyaca m\u0259\u015fhur bir dastan\u0131n yaranmas\u0131na s\u0259b\u0259b olur. Dastanlar\u0131m\u0131zdak\u0131 buta verilm\u0259sini d\u0259 buna b\u0259nz\u0259tm\u0259k olar. \u018fslind\u0259 sevgi bu c\u00fcr yaranmal\u0131d\u0131r&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>M\u0259ns\u0259 bu q\u0259na\u0259td\u0259y\u0259m ki, virtual m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259r, virtual sevgi alq\u0131\u015flanand\u0131r, o k\u0259sl\u0259rd\u0259 ki, psixologiyas\u0131 pozulmu\u015f olmas\u0131n, irad\u0259li, m\u0259ntiqli olsun, add\u0131m atanda d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcb-da\u015f\u0131na bilsin, n\u0259hay\u0259t a\u011f\u0131lla sev\u0259 bilsin. \u0130rad\u0259li insana real al\u0259m z\u0259rb\u0259 vura bilm\u0259y\u0259c\u0259yi kimi, virtuall\u0131q da t\u0259sir etm\u0259y\u0259c\u0259k!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Olmu\u015f hadis\u0259dir: evl\u0259rinin d\u0259c\u0259l, nazl\u0131-duzlu, g\u00f6z\u0259l-g\u00f6y\u00e7\u0259k q\u0131z\u0131 olan Almaz he\u00e7 vaxt inanmazd\u0131 ki, g\u00fcn g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259k k\u00f6nl\u00fcn\u00fc \u00fcz\u00fcn\u00fc g\u00f6rm\u0259diyi, tan\u0131mad\u0131\u011f\u0131 birisin\u0259 &#8211; Arif\u0259 ver\u0259c\u0259k. Bu sevgi h\u0259m d\u0259 Almaz ali t\u0259hsil\u0259 yiy\u0259l\u0259n\u0259nd\u0259n sonra, i\u015fl\u0259diyi m\u00fcdd\u0259td\u0259 do\u011fulacaq. B\u0259li, o sevirdi, yaln\u0131z s\u0259sini e\u015fitdiyi bir n\u0259f\u0259ri &#8211; Arifi. \u0130\u015f saat\u0131nda i\u015fl\u0259diyi idar\u0259, evd\u0259 is\u0259 ev telefonu il\u0259 \u0259laq\u0259 [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-30197","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-edeb"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30197","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=30197"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30197\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":30210,"href":"https:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30197\/revisions\/30210"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=30197"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=30197"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=30197"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}