{"id":38384,"date":"2021-04-23T10:00:00","date_gmt":"2021-04-23T06:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/?p=38384"},"modified":"2021-04-23T12:11:11","modified_gmt":"2021-04-23T08:11:11","slug":"tali-cohen-shabtai-mother","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/?p=38384","title":{"rendered":"Tali Cohen Shabtai.”Mother”"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

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How much longer<\/p>\n\n\n\n

are you going to look at me<\/p>\n\n\n\n

until I reach<\/p>\n\n\n\n

the destination you bless on<\/p>\n\n\n\n

with the Shabbat candles<\/p>\n\n\n\n

blessing?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A goal that you set for me<\/p>\n\n\n\n

whose present and future use<\/p>\n\n\n\n

that will be<\/p>\n\n\n\n

absolutely uninhabitable<\/p>\n\n\n\n

for me when you clap your hands together as a sign of<\/p>\n\n\n\n

thanksgiving?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I told you not to bat<\/p>\n\n\n\n

an eyelid towards girls of my age.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The difference revealed to you<\/p>\n\n\n\n

there<\/p>\n\n\n\n

about me being differentiated from them is<\/p>\n\n\n\n

the burden of my life,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

you’re not mentally prepared for it, and certainly<\/p>\n\n\n\n

not to place me with them in the same<\/p>\n\n\n\n

slot.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A healthy and normal relationship between a mother and her daughter<\/p>\n\n\n\n

is an important factor in the daughter\u2019s normal psychological development<\/p>\n\n\n\n

you should know<\/p>\n\n\n\n

that the common error among women is that having children means being a mother \u2013<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I would rather you understand what I mean on this issue<\/p>\n\n\n\n

because that is not my intention.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You gave birth to me semi-premature<\/p>\n\n\n\n

your breast milk was not secreted as a source of nutrition<\/p>\n\n\n\n

that is sometimes the only dietary source<\/p>\n\n\n\n

in the toddler\u2019s first year \u2013<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I tried to appoint the cause to the indication<\/p>\n\n\n\n

of the Caesarian operation that you gave birth to me<\/p>\n\n\n\n

like a heroine<\/p>\n\n\n\n

you were so beautiful when you held me in the picture,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

but this information was prevented from me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It is beyond me daughters who satisfy<\/p>\n\n\n\n

their mothers\u2019 will<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I understand the source of their desire but not<\/p>\n\n\n\n

the nature of the ability<\/p>\n\n\n\n

to subordinate the good of the individual for the sake of the “common good” contradicts my theory, Mother! Which<\/p>\n\n\n\n

emphasizes the individual’s sovereignty over his life \u2013<\/p>\n\n\n\n

even if we assume this “rule”, I cannot<\/p>\n\n\n\n

change<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I wish you had an alternative daughter and me the same<\/p>\n\n\n\n

mother.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

We have yet to find an alternative like this.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

How much longer are you going to look at me until I reach the destination you bless on with the Shabbat candles blessing? A goal that you set for me whose present and future use that will be absolutely uninhabitable for me when you clap your hands together as a sign of thanksgiving? I told […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[43],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-38384","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-turkxalqlaridbiyyati"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/38384","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=38384"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/38384\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":38386,"href":"https:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/38384\/revisions\/38386"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=38384"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=38384"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=38384"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}