{"id":39364,"date":"2021-08-20T17:00:00","date_gmt":"2021-08-20T13:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/?p=39364"},"modified":"2021-08-20T18:18:57","modified_gmt":"2021-08-20T14:18:57","slug":"gunel-musa-erk%c9%99n-nikahlar-bitm%c9%99y%c9%99n-xaos","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/?p=39364","title":{"rendered":"G\u00fcnel MUSA.”Erk\u0259n nikahlar: bitm\u0259y\u0259n xaos”"},"content":{"rendered":"\n
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Q\u0131z u\u015faqlar\u0131n\u0131n erk\u0259n ya\u015fda \u0259r\u0259 verilm\u0259sinin arxa plan\u0131nda sosyom\u0259d\u0259ni v\u0259 iqtisadi s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259r, l\u00fczumsuz mental d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259r yat\u0131r. Yoxsullu\u011fun, c\u0259hal\u0259tin y\u00fcks\u0259k,  t\u0259hsil\u0259 veril\u0259n \u0259h\u0259miyy\u0259tin az oldu\u011fu c\u0259miyy\u0259tl\u0259rd\u0259 q\u0131z u\u015faqlar\u0131 sor\u011fu-suals\u0131z qurband\u0131r. Bu n\u0259 din, n\u0259 irq, n\u0259 mill\u0259t f\u0259rqi tan\u0131mayan qlobal bir b\u0259lad\u0131r.  BMT-nin \u00f6t\u0259n il a\u00e7\u0131qlad\u0131\u011f\u0131 statistika d\u0259h\u015f\u0259tlidi, h\u0259r il d\u00fcnyada t\u0259xmin\u0259n 12 milyon q\u0131z u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 18 ya\u015f\u0131na \u00e7atmam\u0131\u015f evl\u0259ndirilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Erk\u0259n ya\u015fda ail\u0259 qurma\u011fa ail\u0259si t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n m\u0259cburiyy\u0259t faktlar\u0131ndan ba\u015fqa, bir d\u0259 q\u0131z u\u015faqlar\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6zl\u0259rinin bunu ist\u0259m\u0259si faktlar\u0131 da var. Bunun t\u0259m\u0259lind\u0259 is\u0259 \u0259sas\u0259n ail\u0259daxili \u015fidd\u0259t dayan\u0131r. Ail\u0259 daxilind\u0259 fiziki zorak\u0131l\u0131\u011fa m\u0259ruz qalan q\u0131zlar \u0259r\u0259 getm\u0259yi \u00f6zl\u0259ri \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn xilas yolu bilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

U\u015fa\u011f\u0131n bioloji inki\u015faf\u0131n\u0131 tamamlamas\u0131, \u00f6z hissl\u0259rini tan\u0131mas\u0131, h\u0259yat\u0131n\u0131 nec\u0259 davam etdir\u0259c\u0259yin\u0259 q\u0259rar verm\u0259si b\u0259lli bir olqunluq t\u0259l\u0259b edir. Bu t\u0259bii prosesi tamamlamadan \u0259r\u0259 getm\u0259y\u0259, u\u015faq d\u00fcnyaya g\u0259tirm\u0259y\u0259 m\u0259cbur edil\u0259n q\u0131zlar\u0131n \u00e7iyinl\u0259rin\u0259 da\u015f\u0131ya bilm\u0259y\u0259c\u0259kl\u0259ri m\u0259suliyy\u0259tl\u0259r y\u00fckl\u0259nilir. Onlar\u0131n b\u00f6y\u00fck \u0259ks\u0259riyy\u0259ti normal olaraq bu y\u00fck\u00fc da\u015f\u0131ya bilmir v\u0259 bu g\u00fcn x\u0259b\u0259r lentl\u0259rind\u0259 g\u00f6r\u00fcb d\u0259h\u015f\u0259t\u0259 g\u0259ldiyimiz hadis\u0259l\u0259r\u0259 yol a\u00e7\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u0259\u0259ss\u00fcf ki, \u00f6lk\u0259mizd\u0259 rastlanan  bel\u0259 hallar c\u0259miyy\u0259ti i\u00e7ind\u0259n \u00e7\u0131xa bilm\u0259y\u0259c\u0259yi xaosla t\u0259hdid  edir. Bu g\u00fcn h\u0259l\u0259 d\u0259 az da olsa, n\u0259sild\u0259n-n\u0259sil\u0259 \u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcl\u0259n bu travman\u0131n pay\u0131 b\u00f6y\u00fckd\u00fcr. Az\u0259rbaycanda h\u0259r 10 adamdan 7-8-ni dindirs\u0259k g\u00f6r\u0259rik ki, n\u0259n\u0259si ilk \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131 15-16 ya\u015f\u0131nda d\u00fcnyaya g\u0259tirib. N\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r u\u015faq anas\u0131z b\u00f6y\u00fcy\u00fcb. \u00c7\u00fcnki erk\u0259n ya\u015fda d\u00fcnyaya u\u015faq g\u0259tir\u0259n qad\u0131nlar\u0131n \u0259ks\u0259riyy\u0259ti do\u011fu\u015f zaman\u0131 d\u00fcnyas\u0131n\u0131 d\u0259yi\u015fib. Anas\u0131z b\u00f6y\u00fcy\u0259n u\u015faqlar qohum-\u0259qraban\u0131n \u0259li alt\u0131nda \u00f6m\u00fcr ke\u00e7irtdiyi \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn h\u0259yata qucaq dolusu m\u0259n\u0259vi z\u0259rb\u0259 il\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259m bas\u0131rlar. Damla-damla ruhlar\u0131na hopan \u015fidd\u0259t, \u0259ziklik, sevgisizlik onlar\u0131 m\u0259n\u0259n \u0259zir. Aqressiv, \u015fidd\u0259t\u0259 meyilli, sevgisiz bir topluma \u00e7evrir. \u0130lk bax\u0131\u015fdan bunlar\u0131n f\u0259rqin\u0259 varmaq m\u00fcmk\u00fcn deyil. Ancaq ba\u015f ver\u0259nl\u0259ri analiz etdikd\u0259 bunun bir reall\u0131q oldu\u011funu dana bilm\u0259rik.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bu g\u00fcnl\u0259rd\u0259 b\u00fct\u00fcn \u0259n\u0259n\u0259vi v\u0259 sosial mediada A\u011fcab\u0259di rayonunda 15 ya\u015fl\u0131 q\u0131z\u0131n ana olmas\u0131 x\u0259b\u0259ri u\u015faq ya\u015fda zorla \u0259r\u0259 veril\u0259n q\u0131zlar\u0131n faci\u0259sini yenid\u0259n g\u00fcnd\u0259m\u0259 g\u0259tirdi. T\u0259bii ki, bu ilk hadis\u0259 deyil. H\u0259l\u0259 aylar \u0259vv\u0259l 13 ya\u015fl\u0131 q\u0131z\u0131n ni\u015fanlanmas\u0131 da bizi d\u0259h\u015f\u0259t\u0259 salm\u0131\u015fd\u0131. \u0130ll\u0259r \u0259vv\u0259l do\u011fu\u015f zaman\u0131 h\u0259yat\u0131n\u0131 itir\u0259n 16 ya\u015fl\u0131 q\u0131z\u0131n faci\u0259sini d\u0259 xat\u0131rlay\u0131r\u0131q. Erk\u0259n ya\u015fda ba\u015f tutan evlilikl\u0259rin faic\u0259vi n\u0259tic\u0259l\u0259ri g\u00fcn ke\u00e7dikc\u0259 artmaqdad\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

H\u0259l\u0259 u\u015faql\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ya\u015famadan \u0259r\u0259 veril\u0259n, ana olan q\u0131zlar\u0131m\u0131z psixoloji travmalara m\u0259ruz qal\u0131r. Bu v\u0259ziyy\u0259t t\u0259kc\u0259 psixoloji deyil, eyni zamanda sosioloji b\u0259lalara yol a\u00e7\u0131r. Erk\u0259n m\u0259cburi nikahlar \u00f6t\u0259n \u0259srl\u0259rd\u0259 n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r uzun\u00f6m\u00fcrl\u00fc olsa da, indiki d\u00f6vrd\u0259 erk\u0259n ya\u015fda qurulan ail\u0259l\u0259rin t\u0259m\u0259linin \u00e7ox da sa\u011flam olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00fcbut ed\u0259n bir \u00e7ox faktlarla qar\u015f\u0131la\u015f\u0131r\u0131q. X\u0259yan\u0259tl\u0259r, evd\u0259n qa\u00e7an g\u0259linl\u0259r, intihar hadis\u0259l\u0259ri, \u00f6vlad\u0131ndan imtina etm\u0259 hallar\u0131, namus cinay\u0259tl\u0259ri hardasa h\u0259r g\u00fcn mediada qar\u015f\u0131m\u0131za \u00e7\u0131xan faci\u0259vi n\u0259tic\u0259l\u0259rdir. C\u0259miyy\u0259ti \u00e7\u0131x\u0131lmaz xaosa s\u00fcr\u00fckl\u0259y\u0259n bu b\u0259ladan xilas olmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259y\u0259 daha \u00e7ox diqq\u0259t ayr\u0131lmal\u0131 v\u0259 g\u00fcnd\u0259md\u0259n d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr\u00fclm\u0259m\u0259lidir. \u0130lkin olaraq davaml\u0131 v\u0259 m\u0259cburi t\u0259hsil ciddi \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 h\u0259yata ke\u00e7irilm\u0259li, m\u0259kt\u0259b-ail\u0259-u\u015faq \u00fc\u00e7buca\u011f\u0131 daha da m\u00f6hk\u0259ml\u0259ndirilm\u0259lidir. Erk\u0259n nikahlar\u0131n \u00e7ox oldu\u011fu b\u00f6lg\u0259l\u0259r \u00fczr\u0259 bir risk x\u0259rit\u0259si haz\u0131rlanmal\u0131 v\u0259 h\u0259min riskli b\u00f6lg\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 bu istiqam\u0259td\u0259ki i\u015fl\u0259r\u0259 daha \u00e7ox diqq\u0259t yetirilm\u0259lidir.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Q\u0131z u\u015faqlar\u0131n\u0131n erk\u0259n ya\u015fda \u0259r\u0259 verilm\u0259sinin arxa plan\u0131nda sosyom\u0259d\u0259ni v\u0259 iqtisadi s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259r, l\u00fczumsuz mental d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259r yat\u0131r. Yoxsullu\u011fun, c\u0259hal\u0259tin y\u00fcks\u0259k,  t\u0259hsil\u0259 veril\u0259n \u0259h\u0259miyy\u0259tin az oldu\u011fu c\u0259miyy\u0259tl\u0259rd\u0259 q\u0131z u\u015faqlar\u0131 sor\u011fu-suals\u0131z qurband\u0131r. Bu n\u0259 din, n\u0259 irq, n\u0259 mill\u0259t f\u0259rqi tan\u0131mayan qlobal bir b\u0259lad\u0131r.  BMT-nin \u00f6t\u0259n il a\u00e7\u0131qlad\u0131\u011f\u0131 statistika d\u0259h\u015f\u0259tlidi, h\u0259r il d\u00fcnyada t\u0259xmin\u0259n 12 milyon q\u0131z u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-39364","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-pub"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/39364","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=39364"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/39364\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":39370,"href":"https:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/39364\/revisions\/39370"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=39364"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=39364"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=39364"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}