{"id":8762,"date":"2014-03-31T10:58:11","date_gmt":"2014-03-31T10:58:11","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/?p=8762"},"modified":"2014-03-31T10:58:11","modified_gmt":"2014-03-31T10:58:11","slug":"bahadur-qobustan-toylarin-tutdugu-toy-kos%c9%99-yazisi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/?p=8762","title":{"rendered":"Bahadur QOBUSTAN.”Toylar\u0131n tutdu\u011fu toy” (K\u00f6\u015f\u0259 yaz\u0131s\u0131)"},"content":{"rendered":"

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Toy tutmaq yeddi ba\u015fl\u0131 \u0259jdaha kimi bir \u015feydi; biri var kim\u0259s\u0259 toy tutursan, biri d\u0259 var ki kims\u0259 s\u0259n\u0259 toy tutur. Amma h\u0259rd\u0259n d\u0259 el\u0259 olur ki, kimis\u0259 toyda tuturlar, ya da kims\u0259 toyda tutuzdurur. Kimisi d\u0259 toyda tutmadan qar\u0131n a\u011fr\u0131s\u0131na tutulur. Bir d\u0259 var ki , toy adama toy tutur. Bax, \u0259n pisi d\u0259 el\u0259 budur\u2026
\nToy xalq\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n g\u00f6z\u0259l ad\u0259t-\u0259n\u0259n\u0259l\u0259rind\u0259n biri olsa da, son 10-15 ild\u0259 bu g\u00f6z\u0259lliyi k\u00f6lg\u0259d\u0259 qoyan bir \u00e7ox \u0259lam\u0259tl\u0259r peyda olub.
\nM\u0259n o q\u0259d\u0259r d\u0259 \u201cqoca\u201d olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131m \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn sovet zaman\u0131ndak\u0131 Az\u0259rbaycan toylar\u0131 yad\u0131ma g\u0259lmir. Amma 90-c\u0131 ill\u0259rin rayon toylar\u0131 xatirimd\u0259di. Bu ill\u0259rd\u0259 u\u015faq olsam da, \u0259halinin kas\u0131b, lakin \u015f\u0259n olma\u011f\u0131 h\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 m\u0259ni t\u0259\u0259cc\u00fcbl\u0259ndirirdi.
\nYeniyetm\u0259 q\u0131zlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n \u015falvar geyinm\u0259sin\u0259 pis bax\u0131lan bu d\u00f6n\u0259md\u0259, toyda ham\u0131n\u0131n qiyaf\u0259ti biri-birin\u0259 uy\u011fun idi. Qad\u0131nlar tikdirilmi\u015f v\u0259 ya d\u0259bd\u0259 olan t\u0259xmin\u0259n eyni par\u00e7adan don geyirdil\u0259r. Ki\u015fil\u0259rin d\u0259 a\u011f k\u00f6yn\u0259k, qara \u015falvar geydiyi bir zaman idi. Camaat toya a\u015f\u0131\u011fa qulaq asmaq, oynay\u0131b, \u015f\u0259nl\u0259nm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn gedirdi. O zaman onun-bunun a\u00e7\u0131q yerl\u0259rin\u0259 baxma\u011fa v\u0259 qar\u0131n \u201cotarma\u011fa\u201d \u00e7ox da meyl yox idi.
\nO zaman indiki kimi masadak\u0131 yem\u0259kl\u0259rin qiym\u0259ti d\u0259 k\u0259ll\u0259\u00e7arxa \u00e7\u0131xm\u0131rd\u0131. Onda insanlar\u0131n bir kasa \u201cbozba\u015f\u0131n\u0131\u201d yeyib, Allaha \u015f\u00fck\u00fcr el\u0259m\u0259kl\u0259ri d\u0259 vard\u0131. Bir d\u0259 o vard\u0131 ki, insanlar ba\u015fqas\u0131n\u0131n sevincin\u0259 \u015f\u0259rik olma\u011f\u0131 da bacar\u0131rd\u0131lar. Oynayark\u0259n \u00fczd\u0259 t\u0259b\u0259ss\u00fcm var idi\u2026
\nO zaman i\u015f yerl\u0259ri dem\u0259k olar ki, yox s\u0259viyy\u0259sind\u0259 idi. \u018fhalinin \u0259ks\u0259r hiss\u0259si kas\u0131b idi. Amma o kas\u0131b\u00e7\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n qaba\u011f\u0131nda o\u011flanlar indiki kimi 25-35 ya\u015flar\u0131nda yox, 18-24 ya\u015flar\u0131nda evl\u0259nirdil\u0259r.
\nD\u00f6vl\u0259t Statistika Komit\u0259sinin sayt\u0131ndan g\u00f6t\u00fcrd\u00fcy\u00fcm m\u0259lumata g\u00f6r\u0259, 1980-ci ild\u0259 nikaha gir\u0259n o\u011flan\u0131n t\u0259xmin\u0259n 50 faizi 18-24 ya\u015f aras\u0131nda ail\u0259 qurublar. 90-c\u0131 ill\u0259rd\u0259 bu r\u0259q\u0259m 40 faiz olub.
\n2011-ci ild\u0259 28085 o\u011flan (32 faiz) 18-24 ya\u015f aral\u0131\u011f\u0131nda ail\u0259 quranlard\u0131r. Art\u0131q h\u0259r ail\u0259 quran 2 o\u011flandan biri \u0259vv\u0259ll\u0259r oldu\u011fu kimi, 18-24 ya\u015fda deyil, 25-34 ya\u015f aras\u0131nda evl\u0259nm\u0259y\u0259 \u00fcst\u00fcnl\u00fck verir. H\u0259tta 2011-ci ilin statistikas\u0131na g\u00f6r\u0259 ail\u0259 quran o\u011flanlar\u0131n 13 faizi 35 v\u0259 daha yuxar\u0131 ya\u015fda evl\u0259n\u0259nl\u0259rdir.
\n\u018fsas m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259 bizim m\u00fcasirl\u0259\u015fib zad el\u0259m\u0259yimiz deyil. M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259 insanlar\u0131m\u0131zda m\u0259n\u0259vi d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259rin v\u0259 sevgi hissinin \u00f6l\u0259zim\u0259sind\u0259, pula, var-d\u00f6vl\u0259t\u0259, \u015f\u00f6hr\u0259t\u0259 h\u0259v\u0259sin artmas\u0131ndad\u0131r.
\nArt\u0131q \u201ciki k\u00f6n\u00fcl bir olsa, samanl\u0131q seyran olar\u201d misal\u0131 q\u00fcvv\u0259d\u0259n d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcb. Toyda bozba\u015f yey\u0259nl\u0259r\u0259 \u201cboz ba\u015f\u201d kimi bax\u0131l\u0131r v\u0259 onlar\u0131n boz ba\u015flar\u0131 a\u011farana q\u0259d\u0259r o bozba\u015f onlar\u0131n ba\u015f\u0131na qax\u0131l\u0131r. Toy ed\u0259nin \u0259n kas\u0131b\u0131 bel\u0259 stolun \u00fcst\u00fcnd\u0259 barmaq bas\u0131lacaq q\u0259d\u0259r yer saxlama\u011f\u0131 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 s\u0131\u011f\u0131\u015fd\u0131rm\u0131r. Toy ed\u0259nl\u0259r \u201ca\u015f\u0131\u011f\u0131n a\u011f\u0131na da l\u0259n\u0259t qaras\u0131na da\u201d deyib toylar\u0131na \u201cb\u0259rkged\u0259n\u201d ma\u015f\u0131nla b\u0259rkged\u0259n m\u00fc\u011f\u0259nnil\u0259r \u00e7a\u011f\u0131rmal\u0131d\u0131rlar.
\nO\u011flan evi d\u0259rid\u0259n qab\u0131qdan \u00e7\u0131x\u0131b q\u0131za \u00e7oxlu q\u0131z\u0131l almal\u0131, q\u0131z evi is\u0259 o\u011flan\u0131n t\u0259z\u0259 t\u0259mird\u0259n \u00e7\u0131xm\u0131\u015f evini a\u011fz\u0131na q\u0259d\u0259r cehiz il\u0259 doldurmal\u0131d\u0131r\u2026
\nBir s\u00f6zl\u0259, israf\u00e7\u0131l\u0131q v\u0259 \u015f\u00f6hr\u0259tp\u0259r\u0259stlik bizi toy etm\u0259y\u0259 qoymur. Ham\u0131 toyunda b\u0259rk getm\u0259k ist\u0259yir. B\u0259rkged\u0259n toya is\u0259 b\u0259rk haz\u0131rla\u015f\u0131b getm\u0259k laz\u0131md\u0131. Ona g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 bu b\u0259rkliy\u0259 ail\u0259 b\u00fcdc\u0259si tab g\u0259tir\u0259 bilm\u0259y\u0259n insanlar\u0131m\u0131z d\u0259v\u0259tnam\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259nd\u0259 biri-birin\u0259 az qala ba\u015fsa\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131 verir\u2026
\nBel\u0259 yerd\u0259 adam dem\u0259sin neyn\u0259sin: hardasan ay \u201cbir molla, \u00fc\u00e7 manat pul, bir k\u0259ll\u0259 q\u0259nd\u201d\u2026<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Toy tutmaq yeddi ba\u015fl\u0131 \u0259jdaha kimi bir \u015feydi; biri var kim\u0259s\u0259 toy tutursan, biri d\u0259 var ki kims\u0259 s\u0259n\u0259 toy tutur. Amma h\u0259rd\u0259n d\u0259 el\u0259 olur ki, kimis\u0259 toyda tuturlar, ya da kims\u0259 toyda tutuzdurur. Kimisi d\u0259 toyda tutmadan qar\u0131n a\u011fr\u0131s\u0131na tutulur. Bir d\u0259 var ki , toy adama toy tutur. Bax, \u0259n pisi d\u0259 […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-8762","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-pub"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8762","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=8762"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8762\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":8764,"href":"https:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8762\/revisions\/8764"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=8762"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=8762"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/edebiyyat-az.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=8762"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}